I just got caught up on all this…and I feel exactly like you @Hysteria
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Careful Lucy. You might summon a men’s rights activist. 
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Mgtow to the rescue…thats not fair of me…i should have made it gender neutral
…fucking they’s 
…oh zhit my bitterness is palpable today 
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I feel you in so many ways. I actually have an Erectile dysfunction spell somewhere to help you make sure he can’t get it up anymore.
I know how you feel and the struggle it is with a child. My ex really fucked up my son with his disrespectful actions towards me and him. Yet blames me for how my son is and his cheating.
I’ll help you anyway I can. And you’ll come out of this better then before for you and your son.
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I’m not sure if it was mentioned above but I think he’s the one to be punished. There are millions of single men&women on earth who search their happiness. She was calling and texting all the time because he allowed her to do that. He was the one to dissappear from you. He was the one to divorce you and treated you bad in court. Don’t spare his piece of the pie.
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he has already presented a weakness that can be used to destroy both him and the girl’s relationship: his wandering eyes and appetite for sex. It could potentially lead to a path of destruction for them already…but could be encouraged with a little push in the right direction if you enhance that natural flaw, if you catch my drift. It could like end in a constant loop that can effect other people though. Or not. It all depends on how you want to go about things
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Don’t forget to ruin your husband too because he allowed it to happen.
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What did the fetus do to you? Ask yourself does revenge seem like it will satisfy your bloodlust for destruction? Maybe. Affairs are common. They happen to everyone all the time for thousands and thousands of years. The best thing to do is to heal away from this. This was probably be the best anyway, if he just left and dumped you for another. He is not for you.
A chapter has closed and ended in your life. A new one will begin. Everything is burned up and gone, but the new will ressurect from the ashes. Time will heal you when you allow yourself to pass through this vengeance. For the time being, release your stress, grief and anger. It makes room for healing.
A good quote Lilith gave to me once when I was cheated on,
“Your suffering and pain is beautiful . In your pain, you are beautiful. This suffering is what gives birth to your creativity. There are many who wish to be in the ecstasy of that pain, because it is beautiful. Don’t hide it, release it.”
Why not ask Lilith to help you? Hekate is also very loving and will help you through this grief.
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I feel so hopeful now with everyone who has spoken here. I’m floored at the support. Thank you. Yes I would love that spell. Thank you
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Oh definitely not. I am prepared to be without him, what’s done is done. You are correct
Your right. As if removing me and bringing out his most carnal habits, thus doing exactly the same to them. Not allowing him to change for any better. Like that?? How tho?
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It’s more of amplifying one’s faults and binding them so they are doomed to be destroyed by said flaw. In your case, you will be amplifying a few different things: his lust, his impatience, his desire to flee and his anger. While I do this solely by visualization, you can make a doll with some personal articles and threads to bind the areas I am about to mention.
Start by identifying the areas of the body where an individual may feel (lust in the groin, anger in the chest, impatience in the head and desire to flee in the legs). For each emotion, you are going to focus on each part of the body, pushing energy to act as fuel to strengthen each one, visualizing it begin to pour out of the body part like flames, engulfing the individual. When you feel like the emotion is at its max, push the flames downward and wrap it around the body part tightly like a chain. You can end each binding with a declaration such as “By my Will, you shall be devoured by your flaws. So it shall be.”
The last time I did this to amplify an individual’s anger, they were arrested for going into a blind fury in public and proceeding to not only bite, but hold on to an individual with their teeth. It can drive people insane.
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@Dralukmun well spotted. That is a tremendous opportunity.
@SirenSong you might consider working to increase his lust with an end view of him uncontrollably seeking out new partners. For the woman, I would recommend you to the book ‘Demons of Magick’ by Gordon Winterfield. Look at The Master Curse. It begins with suppressing the target’s psychic defenses so that you attack can proceed vigorously. It’s a multi-layered attack. Further, search posts on this forum by C. Kendall. He posted about a curse he developed and executed against someone deserving. It too is a multi-layered attack.
Always remember that you are the innocent party. You were attacked. Your life was ruined. Also: Karma does not exist.
Happy hunting.
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Thank you so much. I am starting tonight
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Thank you!!! I’m starting tonight and all the suggestions have been taken into consideration. Thanks for the book title 
appreciate you!!
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I’ll pm you it!
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I’m so glad you are here. And you will get justice for the shit this girl and your ex are putting you through.
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