Would this be worth it?

Love, Sex Magick & Relationships
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So, just today I learned that a guy who I had gotten romantically close to had blocked and removed me from all his socials, without as much as a warning.

Our feelings were mutual, and we decided to be official. Mid august was a rough month for me, and so is this start to september; this guy had been my rock up till this point. They had told me that if there were problems, they would talk to me; in addition, they’ve told me that even with my issues he would never leave.

Words can age like milk, I guess.

I want him back. I dunno if my brain is just producing some kind of copium but I’ve thought about using magic to get him back. Agares, Forneus, and Sallos. Agares will return him to my contacts, Forneus will aid in reconciliation, and Sallos will spark back the love that was there.

Will this work? I don’t know. Is this even a good idea? Probably not. I’ve never used targetted love spells before, but my experiences with him makes me feel like this guy’s my person. It feels embarrassing to be this desperate, but I guess that’s the way she goes.

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I’m sorry to hear that you’ve gone through this, i’ve also gone through a similar experience.

What you’re asking is not something that anyone but you, yourself can give the answer to.

Our lifetime on this plane is limited, instead of wondering whether this will work or not which is not useful from an objective sense, since if you’re already doubting whether it will work, you’re willing that reality further into existence. Think that it’s something that you want, then it’s something worth trying. Forget whether it’s a “good ideia”, actions can go in many different paths and frequencies, what ends up being good or bad is subjective to what we feel and see.

So here is what i would suggest, some of these harder than others:

→ Clear your mind of doubt, fear or anxiety, clear your desperation, you need to be okay with the idea that they’re not here, do not put them on a pedestal, stay strong to yourself and stay neutral to the situation.

→ Understanding what the blockages are in the connection would help out a lot, if you already have a good idea what caused this separation, make sure there isn’t something within them that is being reflected out that you’re unaware of, and if you feel comfortable that you understand the reasoning, then you don’t need to worry about this.

→ Perform the spell, it seems as though you already formed out a plan, petition the entities you’ve already felt a calling or a connection to, contrary to what the general public thinks, demons will not judge you or ask you for ridiculous demands, life’s not a B-movie.

→ After the spell is performed, know that it is done and that the result will arrive, it is merely delayed in the 3D reality, go about your days as if it’s already done, you have shaped this reality, do not look for proof or validation, do not stalk them or their social media and do not WORRY about how it will happen, just live your life and focus on feeling good about yourself.

I understand that a lot of these points may be difficult while in turmoil from what’s occured, but i believe in you, if after some time, nothing changes, you should look to read on the situation spiritually to see what is delaying the arrival of your outcome.

This is just my thoughts on the matter, though.

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I kind of sounds like those issues got the better of him, he got overwhelmed with being depended on, and he couldn’t face saying so in person - not after he’s sworn they wouldn’t, and something became a last straw and he ran.

There’s an entire attachment style that does this, called “Dismissive Avoidants” - maybe look that up and see if there’s any match. Those guys hate neediness and it makes them run very easily. Which means chasing him now isn’t the right strategy - they often come back on their own after they’ve had some space. Ghosting is a hallmark of this attachment style.

If the thing that made him leave is still there though, so you might get contact but what’s to stop him from getting overwhelmed and running again.

Probably want to use that magick to solve the issue and get that put of the way first. Then you can get a contact me spell going and make sure he knows it’s over, and then there’s nothing in the way other than maybe his pride.

I think that’s normal when you didn’t get any closure and no time to process it. This was only yesterday. It’s probably worth giving it a couple of weeks and just focusing on yourself before you decode - feelings are likely to be pretty volatile right now, and you might not feel the same later as you do now.

On the other hand if you use magick to get contact you might at least get some closure on the why.

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Dismissive avoidant is a great point!!
Maybe just ADHD… you don’t meet the requirements for the dopamine boost anymore (if so, that is “our” deficiency problem. Not your fault)

It might not be a great idea to pull him back in using magick, but it’s totally logical that you would at least like to know what happened to cause this sudden change.

Maybe just have Agares and Forneus aid in getting him back in your orbit and start the conversation and see where things go from there?

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