People try to use other people who they think they have something to offer BUT they don’t like them enough NOT to use them. Also people who use other people are people who are closed off to connecting with other people.
It is a lesson that you need to learn. I walked in your shoes.
First of all you need to build your self esteem and realise that people who are trying to use you, even those people can see that you have high value. It is a compliment. If you had nothing to offer they wouldn’t even want to interact with you. You would had been uninteresting.
The second thing that you need to learn is how to spot when someone is interested to use you. Prevention is the best protection. Once you spot someone is trying to use you there are two ways that you can handle it either push them away from you or try to see if you can use them too. Once they sense that you want to use them too the majority will either leave you alone or they will try to use you before you use them.
The other thing that you need to learn is how to stay detached and become more attractive to people and actually make them like you.
Finally the final thing that you need to learn is how to spot people who are emotionally unavailable and are not looking to connect with anyone around them. You can do this by a series of testing them before you let your guard down. One method is by asking them key questions that will reveal what there are their intentions. They have to be careful questions that will not raise suspicion. You need to improve a lot your social skills and reading people and also doing careful listening to when and how someone speaks to do this. This is a skill that cannot be easily learned.
If you are looking for a spell that will protect you against these ttype of people is a spell to be able to see through illusions. Any demon, djinn, angel, orisha, god/goddess spell that is relevant can be helpful.
To be protected not to be used is a hard skill to learn that takes time. Once you master it you can rip a lot of benefits.
If you want to overcome this you also need to keep in mind that you need to stop trying to see the good in people and first you need to focus to see their intentions and who they are.
Oh and final thing… to be protected by pretadors you need to be able to turn into a predator yourself if it is needed. If you dont have a predator side you cannot properly fight predators off you. Your good side is not protected if you dont have a bad side that can be feared.
Be peaceful not harmless.
Trial and error. Just make sure the people that you practice on are not the good people. You don’t want to become the people who are using you.
Also make sure that the people who want to use you really have that intention and it is not you or you read the situation through eyes of past trauma. Becoming vindictive will shut you down from connecting with people that are worth your time and you dont want to do this.
If you feel like you need to take revenge the best thing to do is to learn first if you can distance yourself or remove from your life the person that seems to be bad for you.
Yes. Then I fixed my boundaries, learned to say no (nicely) and not feel bad about it, and it stopped happening except from the people I’m authentically happy helping who need it.
My energy is much better spent and not wasted.
Belial helped teach me this. If someone can help themselves, I view it as a disservice to take away their opportunity to learn and develop by doing it for them.
Its incredibally easy to manipulate people, so much so that the first time u meet a person at a bar as long as you form a small connection with them like offer them a cigarrete beforehand and show your a nice person that has their “best interests at heart” most people will fall for any thing u tell them.
Do you know if i pronounce a enn the way you say it if you are from Portugal , Will it still work , or do i need to pronounce the way its Said in YouTube videos where the enn is pronounced
It doesn’t matter as long as your intention is set. You can chant the Macarena is you like, it doesn’t really matter. Enns are not mantras and there’s no real energy in the vibrations themselves.
Intention an attention are what matter.
I cannot do it. FOr me it is really hard. My upbringing made me unable to be able to manipulate people which is not good. If you dont know how to do it yourself it puts you in a vulnerable position tot be a victim.
What u can or cannot do is entirely dependant on what you believe u can or cannot do so sure, at the moment u cant. But u can heal your childhoods traumas and reprogram yourself to a point where u can learn manipulation if u really want to.
This is true. I carry a lot of trauma though. It is hard to heal. I tried some reiki meditation on youtube. I found some good ones.
Anyway, for me the only reason why I want to learn manipulation is because I believe this is the only way to be able to spot a manipulator and stop them from achieving their goals.
Learn to set boundaries with yourself and with others. King Belial is excellent for that. I have not other than Lucifer encounter a being who’s as good with setting boundaries as King Belial is, also to teach one how to do so themselves, and the bestowing of strength in character to enforce those boundaries
Maybe one of the lessons is to not be like Jesus, but also you do not have to be like that spirit to be Kind and Giving. Another Lesson is probably to find the right people to be kind and giving with and in turn they will give back.
The written words below the seal are words of power with the pronunciation, meant to be vibrated as you are opening the seal (gazing upon the seal)
Perfect for sigil magick as the simplest form of magick, and if desired to do so, candles can be added with the appropriate candle color for the desire goal (Yellow && OR Pink), blood can be used too as often used in sigil magick
