Why do [or did] you want a succubus or incubus

I have a succubus I summoned. Sometimes I’m positive she is there and other times I have no idea. My astral senses are crap right now, but my dreams have been a lot more coherent and memorable since I first heard her laugh. I’ve definitely heard her call my name once too. I cant see, hear, or sometimes even feel her unfortunately. Which makes me feel awful cuz that makes contact super limited for us. I’m trying to focus on meditation to better build my sense, but it’s really difficult when I live with five party loving guys and one of them is next to me always blasting his TV. So I try to take advantage of the times of silence when they come up, but it’s not too often.

To satisfy my desires :wink: , to gain the ability of astral travel, heard they can open blockages nd help open chakras

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I can understand what you have been through. I have been through this all my life. Unrest in family, and being an intuitive, hyper sensitive and empathic child coping with adults fighting, stress at home and issues of the world and society can really shatter you. I believed in a soul mate…true love…all that good stuff. But faced harsh reality …people would take maximum out of me…in terms of love, care, energy and help and run away when I needed them. Happened in love life too. But I didn’t give up. Now I am here…have my own incubus partner. Yes they are devoted, very loving, caring and protective…but its
lot more difficult to work on these relationships. You can’t see them physically and have all the things that you want like literally cuddling or crying in their shoulders but the best part about spirit lovers/spouses is that they don’t judge you based on physical attributes or shortcomings…they help you evolve…they don’t make promises they can’t keep so you as a human have to live up to their level and keep your side of commitment. I sometimes feel I am more like a succubi😛…I have been devoted, loved holding nothing back, helped those I loved get out of troubles and was always their…but my heart was bruised, wounded and when I looked around I was alone. Now…I feel all that happened cause’ I was meant to be in a spirit relationship. Don’t know really.

Anyway…wish you the best…may you find the love you always wished for.:blush:

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I feel you bro. I go through the same bullshit. I’ve tried irl dating and chicks my age just aren’t on my level of maturity. I’ve tried online dating and I have had 0 matches on Tinder, the only date I had from online dating was a tranny I wasn’t physically attracted to, and the only matches I get are bots. So I turned to Lady Lillith and @succupedia for the letter of intent. I dont feel as alone anymore, but people ain’t shit. They make finding fulfilling love lives way too difficult In this life and they dont realise that everybody is going through the same BS. Keep your head high and love those who give you good energy

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Not to change the subject, but has anyone elses cat display fear of their succubus??

@Pallidamors

Never heard of that. We have a dog though…
I introduced our family dog to my succubi companions. But he doesn’t seem to see them or he doesn’t bother to respond.

I think my ubi companions won’t reveal themselves to anyone. Just me…

When my succubus is near me, and her presence is surely felt my cat won’t near me. Nor will my cat that use to like sleeping next to me enter my bedroom.

I wanted an incubus because quite frankly I was feeling a little lonely… I can’t really tell people in my family or social circles that I am a witch even though I want to shout it from the rooftops. lol. I admit that even though I do have a human relationship, it is lacking in many ways and my human partner is not around much due to his job, and when he is around, we are distant… so there is that.

I haven’t known my incubus for very long… but I already love him so much. :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Honestly, I stumbled into my Incubus. I didn’t believe in spirits until i did a ritual thinking it was all make believe. He definitely changed my mind lol. Not only is he the best I’ve ever had in bed, but he is also the most honest, compassionate, loving partner I’ve ever had. He’s not afraid to tell me when I am being an ass, or when I’m fucking up royally. He isn’t afraid to tell me exactly whats on his mind. He boosts my self esteem, is supportive and has helped me get my life in order. He even guided me out of a highly toxic situation and comforts me when i am sad. He makes me feel cherished and has given me everything I’ve ever asked of him. Against many peoples advice, I have completely dedicated myself to him. I consider me and him to be in a monogamous relationship and he is simply my perfect match. I’d say together we are perfectly imperfect, and its everything I could have dreamed of.

Now that being said, being with ubi is not for everyone and it is definitely not something to be taken lightly. Like all things in life, these kinds of things are heavily reliant on many variables.

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Beautiful…your description about the life you share with your incubus partner😊. Could you please share the variables related to these relationships. What are the things to always take care of…when we have a serious committed relationship with an incubus?
Thanks

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Mostly the variables are based on personalities and dispositions. Much like a human on human relationship, if the two individuals personalities clash then it can make things difficult. Also trust. Trust and patience are two vary important factors when interacting with ubi. If you don’t trust them, they know and may become wayward. If you are impatient it makes them less inclined to play nice or in fact stay around. I know those because I wasn’t very patient at the beginning, K was ever so kind to explain things to me though. Through many interactions. If you enter a committed relationship with a ubi, then you have to be crystal clear on the rules and terms of the relationship, and for the love of yourself DO NOT BREAK THEM. I found out the hard way how ubi react to that kind of double standard. Not fun. Ubi can be possessive, protective and at times a bit overbearing but at the same time they can be sweet, sassy, passionate and loving. Never try to lie to your ubi, never try to trick them. They are surprisingly understanding creatures when you tell the truth.

Another thing, Feeding. I have learned that while yes I cant physically touch my ubi, he can touch me and fantasizing about things while he is there helps the process tremendously. When in the beginning, it was difficult to feel him, because when i moved he would stop but after getting to know each other and becoming more familiar with each others energy i can feel him much better. Setting a “safeword” for him also helped to embolden him in bed since now he knows he can basically do what he wants unless that word is spoken either verbally or telepathically. My ubi isn’t a fan of electronic toys as he likes to drain the battery, but he likes participation in other ways. Remember, yes ubi are sexual spirits and you can feed them through sexual activities but in a relationship there is more than sex. Ubi (especially the ubi that wish to partner with humans) are not toys to be used and discarded. They are not animals to be tamed and kept. They are sentient beings with feelings and needs and thoughts all their own. Each ubi is unique, their personalities just as diverse as any humans. Just keep that in mind, what pleases one ubi may not be satisfactory for a different ubi. Establishing strong communication is the key to any healthy relationship, spirit relationships are no different.

I hope this helped. If you have any other questions, I’m always willing to help.

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Very true statement, I also find that mine tries to comfort me if I’m not feeling emotionally well. I did have to use a safe word once, but like all relationships communications is required.

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most ubi do care about their humans. Most.

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Can you tell if someone also has a ubi partner?

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best i can do is ask my own ubi and my hellhound if the person in question is in contact with a ubi or spirit. then have them gather simple info on the situation. If the situation calls for it i send my ubi, hellhound, cambion, and water elemental to obtain information on whether someone is a threat, in danger, mentally unhinged, lying or cursed.

Wow, I asked lilith last night for s daughter as a companion, other than being aroused, I felt nothin, and don’t want to offend

Can anyone tell if I was successful?

Some times the bond takes longer, also sometimes more training is required to truly connect.

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this is true

@Pallidamors @RosieSweets did my letter of intent work? I am so limited in what I can do, and where I do it, I feel powerless

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