Oddly enough I’ve started to appreciate the different faces of Saturn in my life, after some thoughtful inner contemplation (= temper tantrums).
Its influence didn’t make my life exactly easier or more comfortable but I’ve found that its separating aspects (from people, places, etc) served a deeper purpose that reveals itself to me more and more by now. I probably wouldn’t be able to do what I am doing now, if it wasn’t for its destructive preliminary work in the first place. And what I am doing brings me joy, in the end.
We have a really neat thread about expressing gratefulness towards specific spirits/deities for very specific reasons here 
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