I’ve researched this topic after a tough break up 3 years ago, I’ve evolved past wanting a gf, at this point I want a soulmate.
If you’re looking for lust I recommend Sitri! Sitri -Lustful Aura
If you’re looking for love or a change of fate I recommend angels, angels of alchemy by Damon brand is about doing internal magick to change your personality to manifest things. I think this would be super helpful for cultivating that charming and strong personality.
I just recently worked with Amiel for becoming charming, and accessing my raw sexual charisma. As well as helping me stay confident and calm while talking to people I find attractive.
If you’re anything like me you’ll want a mix of lust and love.
The angels of alchemy book offers a lot!