Well ZachD like I said I generally just do a typical candle magic spell and call upon Babalon for matters relating to lust and satisfaction. She’s not exactly one that you can just evoke like a demon or angel (in my experience), but I’ve found that using her 777 seal and other symbols seem to lend her influence to the magic and make it more potent. Babalon is representative of sexually uninhibited women (Crowley’s Scarlet Women) so I think her symbols would be good to evoke to find the kind of woman you described. This is her seal: [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Babalon_seal.png]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Babalon_seal.png[/url]
I would print or draw the seal of Babalon, write out exactly the type of woman you want to draw on the back of it, use EA’s method of sigil activation to open the seal, put it on your altar or working space along with a vase of red roses, and burn a candle by it daily until your lady manifests (focusing on the seal daily too when you light the candle).
I’ve had excellent results with these kinds of methods for drawing specific types of people into my life. Hope this is helpful!