To add to the above - under the “what actions to take” bit from above if the “is it in the best interests of both to be together” part comes out ‘No’… The last option before you accept that is to change yourself to change the answer. It might help if you could find out why she’s so resistant and what about you doesn’t work for her so you can change it to what does. Or maybe start working on that instead of ‘sitting’.
Changing yourself can change everything in your life though, including your goals, and desires like this.
Rebirth meditations can help with that - like The Book of Azazel’s Lake of fire ritual - the kind where you painfully burn away parts or all of your being to be recreated fresh.
Sorry, yeah I lost the notification - yeah you basically structure a servitor to fill with energy, and ask the Higher Self permission, send the charged new energy framework to the person to merge, I have NOT used this with love but I have used it to change people’s minds on other things, and because you’re doing it with the permission of their HS, it bypasses a lot of the normal barriers ordinary people have in place.
This is a walk-through on creating wards that can be adapted for this purpose: