This being is already psychic, dude you need to work on that shit and not worry about the spirit, that sees you for EXACTLY what you are.
Read this book:
It’s REALLY FUCKING IMPORTANT so don’t just nod and smile and intend to do so later.
And while you’re waiting to get that, read this:
It’s really old and out of copyright, you should be able to find PDFs as well.
To get new things in your life you need to do new things, this is a start towards BECOMING the person who has a better and different life, and better opinion of themselves.