I am wondering what a love binding spell with Lilith is supposed to do to the target of the spell?
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Itās supposed to do what you intend it to do. You choose.
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Any love binding is going to create ties that are hard to break. I strongly advise not doing thatā¦my ex stalked me.
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I am not sure what you mean. Could you please be more specific? Thank you
Hi, thanks for the reply. Did you do or have someone do (on your behalf) a love binding spell on your ex? At what point did he stalk you?
Iām trying to find out the actual purpose of this particular type of spell. Please, I donāt want to hear there vague and mysterious types of replies. Iām trying to learn something about something that I donāt know anything about. Thanks.
How about you just do a love spell and find out for yourself.
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Envoke her.
Give an offering.
Tell her what you want.
Results may vary.
Good Luck 
If you need further help - search the forum on how to evoke Lilith.
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Not necessarily, if done in the right way and not with a specific person.
I donāt think the reply was vague or mysterious.
The term ālove bindingā is actually ambiguous in that it can mean a whole lot of different things. Some people may use the term in relation to a working aimed at causing someone to love them or someone else.
Others may use it meaning a working to cause someone who loves them to keep loving them.
Some use the term in reference to working aimed at preventing someone from experiencing or expressing love.
Some mean workings intended to stop someone loving them (such as an obsessive ex).
These are just a few examples. Its not a fixed thing.
A better approach might be to give us more context. Thereās a reason youāre asking the question. If you can let us know what led you to the question, that context may allow us to be better able to understand what you are actually wanting to know.
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However, sometimes vagueness is needed for privacy reasons.
I think what you have done here is give the OP good advice and recommendations. You also helped me, thank you.
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Iām saying YOU design the purpose. A biding is a restriction, and they are as varied as the people at cast them.
I usually use a binding to bind someoneās mouth, I want them to āshut up and go awayā.
Think of a binding like magickal duck tape: you can tape them to you, to an idea, or tape up parts of them to restrict them. So, a love binding, IS very vague: bind them for love: you have to supply the who, what, when where and how.
If you want the person besotted and unable to not think about you, put that specific working in your spell.
If you want them to not look at other people, put that in.
If you donāt want them to go mad with conflict and start stalking you, make sure your working doesnāt take their free will: an add a get out clause āif it he her willā.
Thatās my point: It doesnāt matter what I say: itās your sticky tape, not mine, so itās as specific or a vague, as tight or as loose, as you personally choose to make it.
Intention is everything. Your intention, not mine. If you get me to do it sheāll run a mile and never see you again because thatās what I doā¦ Magick is not an off the shelf predefined solution: YOUāRE the ONLY one making it work, what you think is the most important. Think what you want, nobody can think for you.
Even if you take someone elseās spell, word for word, you are still the one supplying the energy and intention it make it work, not them.
Does this make sense now?
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I think I have one and I donāt know what to do xD, But itās not making me go crazy, itās like itās feels like a test!
Personally, love spells are not worth it.
You need to love yourself enough to know what kind of love you deserve.
Good luck OP.
I have nothing further to say.
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I did one myself. He finally came crawling back for good, but by then Iād gotten fed up with his antics and had done a spell to break his hold over me. He kept reaching out after I told him not to, turned up in the area where I had lived during our relationship looking for me (he didnāt know I had moved), etc.
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Yes it definitely makes sense. I paid someone for a ritual for hire with Lilith, to do a love binding spell on someone. This was done on July 15. The spell is intended to make the target unable to not think about you, and not look at other people romantically, etc. There have been and no results since July 15. Pretty much the opposite of the target stalking me. Nothing. Just crickets chirping. I asked the spellcaster whatās going on and she said I need to give it more time. But I have not heard from the target for almost 3 months.
The extremely unusual part about all this is that I did exactly what I was supposed to do, as far as not lusting for results, forgetting about the spell, and not thinking about the target or the spell work. I did such a good job of NOT thinking about the target and going about my business happily - that I ended up getting pregnant accidentally by a very casual acquaintance. He wants nothing to do with me or our unborn child. Iām considering an abortion. The funny thing is, the fact that I got pregnant so easily ājust one timeā at my age, is absolutely bizaare. The chances were so slim that even if I were to tell anyone that Iām 7 weeks pregnant at my age, they wouldnāt believe me. Iām still in shock and disbelief.
I have no idea why this happened to me. It feels very āoff.ā Iām confused, shocked, and donāt know what to do.
The purpose of the love binding ritual for hire that I had done on July 15, is to reignite the love in someone, intensify it, and have his love for me override any other feelings or emotions he has towards me. The situation is extremely complicated. Heās an ex, but there is way more to our story than what Iām mentioning here and it would take too much time to explain it all.
In this case, we know then what you were sold that it did, but that has nothing to do with the generalities of āwhat does a binding sell do to the targetāā¦ you need to know what this one specific working actually did.
Sounds like it generated magick, it didnāt do nothing, but it backfired.
Backfiring is common when:
a) magick is blocked by the targetās protections, or
b) the person doing the work fucked up, or
c) both the targetās protections were stronger AND the working went wrong
Backfiring happens a lot on love spells and we donāt really know why every time.
Itās usually recommended to do a divination of the target to check if the selected spell has a good likely outcome firstā¦ of course most people donāt bother and neither do to be fair. A failed love spell usually does nothing.
After the fact, a divination of the specific event can help identify what went wrong.
But you have a mess to clean up, and a love spell still to do if you still want him. I think you should do it yourself this time but do a divination for yourself first.
I pulled a card for you, and got āKeeper of the Abyssā.
Iām seeing this as indicating the target hasnāt just got general wards, they have a spirit guide or guardian (or you do) that didnāt allow this action to cross the abyss to affect the target at all, in which cae the energy has nowhere to go but back to where it came from.
The caster probably has strong protections as well. I would if I was handling coercive love magick too, tbh, that shitās crazy making, you donāt want it spilling on you.
If this is the case, the one you want to talk to is the targets spirit guides, ask them (or it) why youāre disallowed from trying to bring this human back into your sphere.
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Look, I donāt understand you. If the spell was cast 2 months ago only, literally on July 15, 2022, why would you or anyone automatically assume one hundred percent that it failed? Thatās ridiculous. I only posted this thread because I was wondering if my unexpected pregnancy by a random loser guy might actually lead to my reconciliation with the target. Iām in a loveless marriage of convenience with the father of my 2 children and we have an open relationship. However my husband eventually got jealous of Bijan and told him to stop contacting me and told me that I wasnāt as allowed to meet him anymore.
Yesterday someone from here did divination on this and was told that the spells are going to manifest - I have faith that theyāll manifest. this spellcaster is someone Iāve worked with before in the past, on the same target, and they manifested perfectly. Itās my own actions in the 3D that prevented the target from wanting to talk to me. I highly doubt that heās protected from Magick since Magick has worked on him before recently. Honestly you are not correct. I keep messing everything up with my stupid actions. I finally am realizing that.
I can see clearly now that I need to have only positive feelings towards the rituals, and I prefer not to believe you. Itās been exactly 2 months as of today and honestly itās too early to assume that the spells failed. No one believe that if a spell doesnāt immediately show results within a month or few weeks, that means they failed automatically? Absolutely not. Thatās ridiculous right?
The divination was done and the spells are strong upon him. There needs to be a change in my situation such as me separating from my husband in order for him to want to come back. The reason we broke up is Iām married to somebody else. And itās not even the father of my unborn child. Therefore itās not the fact that the spells are failing at all. I have faith in the spellcaster and the work she does with Lilith has brought me great miracles in the past.
I only posted this topic to see what it had to do with my unexpected pregnancy which I will now have to abort probably. I really did not expect anyone to say that it automatically failed, and will never manifest when itās been barely even 2 months! Thatās not how these sort of things work. If I sit here and doubt Lilith and Asmodeus then are they really going to help me? No.
I do however know that my spirit guides donāt want me to divorce my husband or be sexually abused/ sexually assaulted by my husband anymore, which he only did when he was ok with me seeing Bijan. That is why theyāre keeping Bijan from me. If thatās the case. I do know that Bijan is my twin flame, and I donāt want a future with him cause Iām much older than him