hello people, i am new to all of this but it is my every vein. i life it 24/7, when i am asleep as well as when im awake. i am fully aware of the other planes sinds i had a very dark experience this year. after then a old friend of mine who i hade a argument/fight with told me he was a vodoun expert cause his father brought him in the african ‘‘occult’’. he told me that after i told him i was exploring the occult. he gave me many signes of this through the years but i never got to realize he actualy practiced these things. now he ignores me for the first time in my life, but whenever i let me guard down it looks like he takes control of my mind. i hear him screaming and yelling that he is here to kill me. i see the most horrific visions at those moments of how he brutally murders me. a few days ago i was in the shower and when i was done showering i thought i heard him downstairs screaming at family members that he was going to kill me as soon as i was done showering. i had the feeling someone wanted to take controle of me as i continouesly thought of jumping out the window or cut myself with glass. when i finished there was nobody there. after this experience and multiple others i had a insight that i should search up vodoun and hoodoon in perticulair just out of nowhere, this is when i got to realice it must be his curse that makes me hear him and make myself think of such horrific acts. why else could i hear just him and no one else. i was rethinking about the matter, could it be an evil spirit? soo i done a little research and found out i could ask marbus to tell me who is responsible for this, and tonight i did an evocation to him. he first told me he would share this knowledge with me in a dream, but i insisted i wanted to know right it away as it was getting to my head. then he told me i was at the right end and indeed it was him. now i am doubting what to do next, cause i am not familiar to the lao and as i read about them i don’t wan’t to bow to them and beg for this to stop. i was thinking about doing a evocation for pazuzu and in this ritual ask him for revenge and protection. besides that i am thinking of also doing the mirror box ritual with burial at the graveyard. what do you all think of this?
Well. Could be an evil spirit, could be he’s good with magic and influencing you, could be constructs of your mind.
Banish and protect as we’ve already advised you and go from there. A good banishing routine and shielding practice would rule out several things. 
If it’s the loa, you need to contact Papa Legba, and respectfully but with authority (knowing it is your right) tell them that you will not tolerate the attack, you would like a working relationship in exchange for their help in making it stop. Mind you, it’s a lifelong relationship - I serve the loa and they respect a person who is genuine, who is good, and who treats themselves and others with respect, and who shows authority in a respectful manner. Stick to any promises or commitments you make, but the loa are actually approachable and benevolent, and they are great allies in my experience. But, know thyself!
This is how I dealt with the Ghede that were sent to attack me by someone else. It worked.