Well not everything is for everyone, I personally think we all will find our paths and what works for each of us may be a little different or that we need to tweak things to get results- but anytime I’ve had an area that I could not get results in, it quite frankly was an area I was selling myself short in.
Like I tried to latch onto several lovers and they quite frankly were not people that were ever going to make happy, it wouldn’t have ended up not working either way and magic made it actually reach its peak and end sooner and got me back on track.
So idk I think there’s a lot of reasons why magic doesn’t work sometimes, but for me I’ve found it’s not the system or type of magic, almost all of those work. Since they almost all work and give results in my experience when properly used, I’ve come to believe lack of results in any given area is directly related to the individual seeking the results.
I talk about some of this here:
But even just having your thoughts, mind, emotions, actions and desires not equating to what you want, can throw you off.
Like when your looking for a mate and your introvert but your hitting up only extroverts and you are pretending, rather than trying to reach a compromise.
Long term it’s not sustainable to put on a show, so all the love magic targeted at individuals that aren’t going to like you at all once they realized your a faker… is wasted.
So I think sometimes we aim for what we think we want, without actually considering if it fits in our life, if it does fit do we have to compromise to have it etc.
But I also find this technique is not for certain things. It’s not best used on people you want in your life everyday because you want the important people to feel and care without having to be told exactly how to do it.
So idk either, this is one of the techniques that almost always delivers results for me when used, but I don’t always like what it does to people and I don’t want to influence the feelings of people I actually care about in general, so I rarely use now.
Wanting a pizza when my husband doesn’t like pizza is about the best example I can come up with for how I use it.
I wouldn’t even use it that way most days, I’d just ask for a damned pizza tonight, but for sake of testing this method and developing it further as it was my main mode of magic for a while, I have used it for things like pizza to see if it worked for me this way.
I did however use this more when I worked outside of my home, before I knew what I was doing, so lack of people to use it on is truly my primary reason for less use of the technique.
I think the hardest part of magic is trying to discern/figure out what is going to work best in any given situation, and that’s based on thinking that all magics work I just have to decide which is best in my situation.