Forget about all the “no-fap” BS, and start reading books on sex magick, and how to make masturbation work for you instead of against you. Learn how to use orgasm to power your magick, and how to internalize the energy of orgasm so that is empowers you.
For every ascetic/denial lifestyle like No-Fap, there is the opposite that can make your life much more fulfilling and rewarding. The techniques of sex magick can increase your aura and make you more sexually attractive, it can make your skin glow with health, it can make you more confident and purposeful, and, when you have sex with another person, it can enhance the sensations and allow you to melt together in ecstatic bliss.
Just have them transmute the energy first, from sexual to whatever is appropriate for their tasks. Otherwise they may end up encouraging you to do it more often rather than when you want to and when you want it for a boost to whatever task they’ve given.
Or just offer it as it makes sense to, using it as a booster rather than a primary food source.
Either way! Just don’t make it the only food source or you’ll never feel like you’re in control and can choose! (Based on other conversations and the desire to increase your willpower and not exclusively this thread)
The idea is of course to choose when you do it, so you not only enjoy yourself but you empower yourself.
It’s okay to enjoy things, if when appropriate you can say nah, I’ll do that later. There’s no reason to feel guilty if you are choosing to do it, you can, have the means to etc. Thusly all the other things!
Thank you so much for this. It is re-affirming to hear that I should forget No-Fap and practice sex magick instead. Channel my energy to a higher pleasure instead of being guilty all the time and resetting day one. Too many day ones lol.
Yes there’s an update. I almost fucked some girls, well at least. But I bailed out at the last moment because most of the girls I attracted were unattractive anyway.
Firstly, back in February, I set out Avery who is Keteriya’s servitor to find a girl who is truly in love with me and to develop a relationship with me. It actually worked, but I wasn’t attracted to the girl in the first place. However, I dreamt of fucking her in my dreams in which I was playing with her pussy until she orgasmed and squirted all over me. I played with her emotions over text saying I loved her etc etc and finally told her I was fooling around and called it quits. Recently I hit her up and she seemed extremely hostile lol.
Secondly, I tried to ask plenty of girls out. I mean real plenty. Too many that it had tainted my reputation around the college, labelling me a player. Every single one of them hot girls rejected me. Even the average chicks weren’t having any of it.
So my final option would be dating apps. I downloaded a bunch of dating apps and tried my luck even though I don’t really have good quality pictures of myself. Most of the girls wouldn’t give a damn to reply to average dudes. The ones who do are prostitutes who are charging exorbitant amounts for their puss puss. And finally there was this fat chick who was down to fuck me. She was honestly ugly and fat that I couldn’t have sex with her so I just called it off at the final minute. I didn’t wanna have regrets later in my life that I had sex with an ugly chick. So there’s that.
I’m also very inconsistent in all aspects of my life including magickal practices. Maybe that’s why shit hasn’t manifested. I’m too lazy anyway. Wanking off seems to be what I prefer. It’s much better and less hassle to deal with another person. Or maybe this is just an excuse to justify my failures.
That’s one of the reasons why I stay virgin. When you first have lost your virginity there is no turning back. We also have to remember the false allegation trend. If you have slept with a woman and she regret it she will falsely accuse you and destroy your life.
Lol next time ask for a hot fuck toy or the right one for you for your life!
Ah man. I am sorry, i laughed out loud.
Good job on the manifestation though, the problem is definitely the request or wording that went wrong bringing this one to you.
If you only want to fuck, ask for a good clean pretty girl just looking for a good time.
If you want to try your hand at doing it right relationship style with a girl that really loves you, just add this: the right one for me, that really loves me or that I love as much as she loves me.
I had been waiting for this moment for a long time. I folded under peer pressure and had sex with a muslim girl. This is the first time I had sex. But im afraid that she has STDs or HIV. I asked her whether she fucked any dudes, but she said she hasn’t fucked in 3 years. I don’t fucking believe her as we fucked less than 24 hours of chatting.
I didn’t enjoy sex honestly speaking. I french kissed her, sucked her boobs and fingered her but i couldn’t get super hard and my condom kept falling off. So im afraid of STDs. When i penetrated her, my penis was only half-hard.
Another issue is that the police here is strict. If u are caught having sex with a muslim, u must convert to Islam and marry her.
Honestly, now im afraid. Maybe that’s why the spirits didn’t want me to have sex. I wasn’t ready for this shit. I think Sargatanas planned this out for me…
Now when i send her a text, she isn’t replying. Im afraid she might press charges of rape or something but I am totally innocent. We had sex with her consent.
Dear BALG members, please suggest me what should I do? Im nervous and i dont want my life to be ruined. Im only 21. Please
Dear one I am sorry to hear that you’ve woken to the fact your actions can have consequences, after there is potential for personal harm and blowback.
My sincerest suggestion is to drop all this wallowing and worry over what might be and accept that when you do things, anything really, that you should be aware of the ways the actions you are taking can affect your life, then decide if you should actually do whatever the action is.
It’s easier to prevent situations like this than it is to clean them up, most times even with magic you still face part of the consequences even if you can redirect some of the energy or circumstances.
It’s best to just to think things through before you act, so you don’t need to influence a dozen people to not speak about it, heal your body and your mind and all of the rest.
This much worry is only going to put stress on your mind and immune system and help you manifest the opposite of your desires, so I would simply tell yourself that you’ve learned, you won’t do that again and you’ll make wiser decisions going forward.
Chances are your consequences are nothing more than worry, but at the rate your worrying you could turn it into something unwanted real fast, so get control of yourself, we all make mistakes, next time you’ll do better and think about afterward, beforehand.
In many cultures, losing virginity is a rite of passage from the “adolescent” phase to that of an “adult,” and from a subtler perspective, this also involves a deeper connection with your subconscious. So, this sudden burst of emotions is normal. Everything is within the norm. I advise you not to overthink possible consequences from this girl. Doing that, would only attract negative energy, which is precisely what you don’t need right now!
As for the fear of sexually transmitted diseases, same thing applies. I understand because I’m a hypochondriac, and any contact triggers paranoia for me, but realize that if you used a condom, you are 100% protected from the trickiest diseases
Go for a nice walk, breathe, take in oxygen, and enjoy life!
Thank you so much. I always do stupid stuff first these days, then I think about the consequences later… such a bad habit and yes it stresses me out. But im calming down slowly
