There’s a commmon misunderstanding of the succubus/incubus entities, and it has created a diversity in the viewpoints of their purposes of being with humans, or of their main purpose of existence as a whole. That doesn’t mean they are “perfect” beings and that every single one of them is good, selfless and pure of heart, everytime and everyday.
Some of them can be as bad as the worst humans out there. Some of them can have a parasitic behavior, without being an actual parasite. Most spirits have the capability of being parasitic, but the differences between a parasite and a genuine spirit is consciousness, selfawareness and the ability to make a choice. A choice is often made by specific circumstances or through emotional responses.
I actually dislike the word “succubus” and “incubus”, because it puts them in a box with no room to redecorate the space within. Their purpose of existence is not only about sex, either. They just happen to like it a lot, just like some of us. And there’s a lot of energy going on when it comes to sex.
What’s the purpose of being human? To find a meaningful and fulfilling life and development through life experience? Chasing our dreams, whatever that may be? Finding balance in life, perhaps?
These kind of spirits and entities can be just as diversive as humans, and when the relationship with them are consensual and within agreement, there’s a lot to gain from them.
They are loyal, faithful, loving and caring towards their partners. Very patient, too, because they often see things from a long term perspective. They are good teachers with several professions and expertise in many different areas. They value a balanced lifestyle, rather than an excessive one.
I never asked anything from them, other than their love, support, comfort and their physical presence. They have given me more than that over the years, of course, but it was given to me by their own choice. A token of appreciation from them, as I see it.
A common mistake in working with demons or any kind of spirit is, as I see it, excessiveness. Some people want to be rich and successful without doing any effort to get there by themselves. Excessiveness in itself, makes the fall more noticeable and harder to rise up again. Balance, in contrast, makes it easier to handle downfalls.
Believe it or not, but there’s a lot of growth in a balanced lifestyle. And that’s what my spirits have given me over the years, and still do to this day.