I have understood what you said, don’t worry, but in my opinion, to create a link based on a negative feeling seems very strange to me x) I think that according to the feeling that has put in it, it gives different results, as if you were approaching someone in the street with anger, hate, or love. With each person you would have different relationships, and inevitably you will be more tense with some than with others. Creating a relationship that is based on love, with a being of love but built on a basis of hate, is like building a castle with glass foundations.