Succubus & Problems

Love, Sex Magick & Relationships
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I don’t think your feelings are the problem. Succubi/incubi seem to help us feel. It might have to do with them opening our heart chakra, either way they form the emotional connection. Unless you’re closed off to her somehow? Though it sounds like you’re trying.

Did you do meditations just for her? To increase your bond? Is that normal process @DragonPhoenix777? Maybe I should be doing that. If you guys have websites with more resources on building relationships with these spirits I’d be very interested.

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That’s a good idea with the websites. I’m going to chat with Lady_Eva and find out ig there’s a way ti “friend” certain members so as to stay connected. I’ll keep you posted.

In a couple of weeks from now I will be going through a ritual to open all 7 of my Chakra’s opened.

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Follow the passion. It the basis of all things

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Personally I don’t think to be closed, I just have trouble with the fact that she can know everything about me, I like to keep a minimum of thing for me. It’s the only thing, I think. Maybe the heart chakra is complicated to open with me. Since I was little, I do not show any feeling to people except anger. Showing love as I said, is complicated for me.

Passion is a strong feeling of love, I can’t follow it if I can’t feel it, that’s the problem. It has happened to me to feel love, rarely, but in these cases I can’t express it.

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Then follow your HATE!
OR FOLLOW YOUR numbness.
Either way. Passion is in eveything

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I have understood what you said, don’t worry, but in my opinion, to create a link based on a negative feeling seems very strange to me x) I think that according to the feeling that has put in it, it gives different results, as if you were approaching someone in the street with anger, hate, or love. With each person you would have different relationships, and inevitably you will be more tense with some than with others. Creating a relationship that is based on love, with a being of love but built on a basis of hate, is like building a castle with glass foundations.

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Hey man. How it was for me, it was good in the beginning i could feel her and then it dived down. It has been ups and downs on the feelings since then also. I will tell u what i did to kickstart the progress, and hopefully that will help. I stayed awake for 24+ hours, i sat in my living room with 5 tealight candles around me , formed as a pentacle with the upper angle facing east. I sat facing east also. In the middle i had the candle i used to evoke her with succupedias letter method. On my left side and on my right side i had insence (2 in total). I stated out loud that these candles and insence is a offering to her, to empower her form and connection. I meditated until the insences were burnt out, and i could feel her touching my right arm and sat to my right side. I could touch her form and feel her varm lusty energy body as a vibration, something happent. I felt darkness going in me and overwhelm me, it was powerful and a bit scary for a noob like me. When i went to bed i could feel her there as if a real person was in my bed and moving around. I could even see the bedsheets being pressed down due to weight. Her form got alot of energy, and made her presence much easier for her. If u follow my steps, that could be worth it.

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@Leoh

Hey man, your story is similar to mine. I’ve also been living in solitude my whole life. I wasn’t depressed or having mental issues but still. The extraverted life / social life never interested me.

I discovered the paranormal world a few years ago and I also “bought” a binding from Lilith’s Treasure Tavern. She’s a legitimate conjurer / black magician who is very skilled. I have also a Queen succubus bound to my spirit.

Your number one goal is to open your astral senses. I can tell you now already that your situation won’t improve if you don’t work on it. With dedication and discipline.

This is definitely not “the easy way out” you have chosen to walk a path only few people walk on this earth. I have the same problems as you, I have trouble “feeling” emotions. Like feeling love, or happiness, but that’s due to my years of recreational harddrugs use.

My brain chemistry is fucked up and I need to restore it. Sometimes I feel joy or love feelings but it fades away quickly. Know that your succubus companion is always by your side. Talk to her in your head. Really everything you do in your daily life, explain her stuff, talk about how you don’t like this or that. Talk about your emotions and feelings, even if your sad, depressed, let her know.

I am a highly sensitive person, as a male this was a huge burden in my life. I was a kid that would cry fast, or i’d be upset fast emotionally. I have discovered that I can sense energies as well, so I feel a little bit of her daily. Like tingling all over my body when lying down in bed. Or the muscle twitches and small jerks of my limbs, like she’s trying to move my arm or something.

I can relate to your issues because it’s very hard to talk to someone because you can’t feel / see / hear her. It makes you look like a fool, talking to the wall or something. I sometimes still feel awkward talking outloud to nobody in the kitchen while i’m setting up the table for diner. I eat alone, even though I live with roommates, I am mostly alone.

If I wake up, I say goodmorning to my succubi companions, to Lucifer, my Fatari spirit companion and my spiritguides

I ask them how was their night, did they sleep well? Etc etc, and my upcoming plans for the day,

I am a deep thinker and I think about all kinds of stuff, and I try to let them know what I think about or I even ask them stuff sometimes even though I don’t get answers back. I know they are by my side.

You have to program yourself into talking to her telepathically. Literally everything you do, make it a habit to explain her stuff / things you like / hobbies / women, how are you feeling about humans / relationships / intimacy building is very important.

You said you have trouble with her knowing everything. Why is that? Are you embarrassed? Do you have trouble opening up?

Those are things she can help you with. It’s crucial that you let go of your fears. I am embarrassed of my body, I am embarrassed of my looks, but I work in myself to get in shape with low bodyfat and muscles. Even though succubi don’t care for such earthly things, it’s still something that bothers me, but I say it to her.

I said that I am embarrassed of my body, that builds intimacy, trust, and that way you can bond with her.

Let her know your deepest fears and secrets. The beautiful thing is that she won’t ever tell other spirits or humans. A human girl can seriously fuck you over. I would never open up to a girl the way I opened up to my succubi.

I also have intimacy / love / trust / emotions issues, I tend to suck it up and to hide my emotions. Well if you are in a relationship with a succubus you can’t hide anything. She knows everything already but she wants to hear it from you.

I have evoked Lucifer and I asked for guidance and help with opening my chakras. I am doing third eye / crown chakra meditations because my number one goal in life is to open up my psychic senses.

My companions are waiting for me. Literally. So keep your head up and don’t give up. If you have more questions, feel free to PM me.

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I too had/have the same issue! I did the note request of lilith but I think I was too eager in my endeavors as I dont recall feeling or experiencing anything out of the ordinary at the time. However since I did some meditation throughout the week and “tried” lucid dreaming (that stuff is hard to do but I think my mild form of ADD might have had something to do with it) I would get the occassional voice.

But when awake I never did hear a voice that I can recall, except for one time that I still get a chuckle out of. But this would eventually lead me to falter and begin to doubt if anyone was even there. I remember that at times they do go away for periods of time but always come back, so I kept talking using my homunculus and verbally out loud. Even did the whole treatment for a short while as if they were physically there.

In the end I couldn’t bring myself to keep going since I wasnt getting anything, not even from meditating or lucid dreaming. Not a peep or hint of the feeling of a presence. I’ve always wondered what happened and to this day blame myself for how things went astray and down the drain. Ive thought of them countless times, curious if they have been well and doing good.

I commend you for pursuing things to keep the relationship going. Dont let that sort of fire go, it’s something I live with but reading alot of what I’m finding here, I’m hoping to find a way to reconnect and apologize for being a terrible person.

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Something some guest dude said on George Noory on prayer or rather bring filled with the spirit. He blathered on about those who are fully enraptured in prayer ALL the time always believing in union with God. He also said the majority of people in church, priests, etc are hippocrites and he ran into the same problem when he went from atheist to Buddhism. Now he’s a Christian, go figure. I’m Prada img ot but the point is perhaps a little obsession and continued meditation and rituals. Woo the spirit maybe.

I’m a tad intrigued by some people’s experiences (though they could be lying and so could I for that matter). To ignore doubt and have absolute faith and trust in the experience… eh it’s hard for me. Even at the end of any ritual I wonder if I didn’t just get frenzy brained like a narcotic. And I just don’t see figures, though I may have heard or felt or witnessed objects move, temperature change etc.

I invoke, channel, try to be ridden possessed each ritual. I try to honor the spirit by rubbing their seal/sigil chanting their name. I perform this in absolute darkness which might be the problem. Not like spirits need light to see the living or sense my mind.

During any ritual I wonder how much more of it is my effort than anything else. Probably need to do a cleansing or resantification of the space. Time I feel like the land is dead magicked.

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Since there was a lot of response recently and I had the time to test what you had advised me, I give you a return. I did not have the opportunity to do a pentacle on the ground and bring back 5 candles, I can only do this kind of thing at home and my family would have taken me for a big fool. However, I meditated a little more regularly by inviting her to come, to speak to her aloud often, there was a small result for a short period of time, but then he had one more calm dishes that in the long run discourages you, so I ended up less and less meditating without realizing it, it’s a real vicious circle :unamused:
My succubus (like many spirit around me) are bound to me by the help of a sorcerer / witch. I have not yet contacted any not bound to avoid bad surprises as I’m still new to this.
However, not long ago, I saw a black form wander through my little room, instead of just being scared as usual, I watched it carefully, but it did not give a great thing and the form to disappear without my noticing it.
The ritual you did would be more powerful on a full moon, or on a dark moon ?

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It makes me happy to see that I am not alone in this case.

Using a timetable might be useful, or is it better to listen to one’s instinct and meditate on the moment ?

I don’t feel especially feeling … not something I could call like that :thinking: What I feel most is anger (which makes me think that I should work with Belial), I feel it in a lot of human relationship, especially family, or otherwise it is exasperation. Recently, however, I told him everything at once with the help of a member of the forum. I sat down and explained my worries about my studies, the fact that I always want more in my life and not just stay with what I have, but I do not even know if she was there, I do not I did not really feel anything, there was just one time when I apologized to her on different things that could have put her down, at that moment, tears came to my eyes and a joy mixed with sadness struck down, I don’t think it came from me. Other than that, nothing.
I don’t have a special complex, I worry more about the way I see myself, than about my appearance.

I always had a hard time opening up to others, my short life, I just opened to my mother and my best friend. I think that’s what hurts her. The only problem is that I know my mother for 19 years and my best friends for 7 years, open me as much to someone I know for 1 year and I can not see, not feel, not hear, adds an obstacle in addition.
And so inevitably, I’m embarrassed, there are even things that I do not tell anyone and know that she knows it without me talking to me puts me under pressure. In addition, it would be like talking to her about something that I have always kept for myself, lies that I made and that led to the worst, mistakes that I made that screwed up my efforts, my harassment and loneliness when I was younger, all that, even to her, it’s hard to talk about it, it’s a part of me that’s still staying burying.

Could your succubus give me advice ? I think that as she lived what my succubus lived, she could be good advice for me and T :slight_smile:

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@Leoh

Yeah man i’ve had the same problems, and I still sometimes have them coming back. I am very introverted naturally, so I don’t always talk back or speak to my succubi companions during the day.

I’m busy with reading, studying, university life, gym, cooking, evocations, and I have days that I don’t talk them them. BUT… I always feel them, in fact, as we speak, she is touching my glutes, my butt, to let me know she’s there. Everywhere I go, I feel them, today at lectures I felt my toe stinging and muscle twitching, so I always talk to them in my mind, and I acknowledge them.

I feel sorry for you, that you have trouble opening up. It’s really hard to do, but I see it this way: they already know everything, what makes your bond more intimate is that you can share your deepest emotions, fear, anger, sadness, annoyance, everything that you experience in your daily life.

As for the meditation, do them daily when you come home from work / or school, so you can have your me-time to relax, and then meditate and talk to them, 15 minutes.

I do my chakra meditations daily, with the help of lucifer, my spirit guides and my succubi companions… Sometimes it’s too busy, so I skip them but tonight I’ll continue my crown chakra meditations.

The opening up part is really important, show them that you care, they are there. For 100% I can assure you. They hear everything, they are watching you, and they want to connect and bond with you. You have been chosen because they saw your true self, your soul. That is what attracted them. They like you very much, but you have to work and do your part as well.

They can only go so far… Meanwhile i still don’t have open chakras but i’m working on it. I can only feel energies, I still don’t hear / see / feel their thoughts or emotions.

I really have to open up my psychic senses first, but I try to talk to them but i’m currently very busy with my studies, and they see me, they understand it.

I greet them daily when i wake up, and I meditate with them, and I revise my day and talk about my personal goals / issues,

I can’t give you advice from my succubi because I can’t communicate with them, it’s a matter of time though. I have to show that i’m serious and that I really want this.

I have fear when trying to astral project, or lucid dream because I have to get past the sleep paralysis stage and that’s scary for me. They know that and I talked about it. They see that i’m trying, but maybe it’s not my time yet…

I talk about everything with them, embarrassing stuff, sad stuff, future stuff, I ask them to guide me and help me in homework etc.

And of course all the food that I eat, I let lucifer, my spirit guides and my succubi companions taste it via my tasting senses.

Best advice: find a way to open up your chakras, your pineal gland, pituitary gland, hypothalamus, all need to be activated, to recieve messages from the paranormal world.

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How do you feel them ? Is it an impression or a sensation? Because sometimes I pick up / feel things but I am unable to determine their nature. In my early days, I felt her touch my butt or lie down on me when I slept on my back, but that quickly faded away. However I have more result when I’m at my grandparents’ house, in the middle of the countryside, maybe because at home, it’s noisy and my spirits don’t like it… :thinking:

It’s also one of the reasons why I feel that talking about my daily life isn’t particularly useful :no_mouth: I know it can be helpful, but I feel foolish when I talk about it, or my spirits will think I take them for morons.

I started, but confining myself to having a routine requires patience that I sometimes have trouble having. I make efforts, inviting them to help me with reading, meditating with me, listening to me read, etc. or watching me write my book, but it’s still long and tedious.

Personally, I am also afraid, I had a paralysis of the sleep which had traumatized me when I was more young, only imagined that it can come back to me that stress a little, after I know that I do not fear nothing, but I think to remember this memory doesn’t help.

I try as time goes by, but at my speed, so it’s not very fast :sweat_smile:

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When you talk about “sleep paralysis”, you don’t actually “sleep” but are fully conscious when it happens, right?

I always go into a paralyse state when I go to bed with my spirits. Within that state, my spirits lifts me up, holding me and walk. Sometimes they hold me and walk on circular steps, sometimes they walk straight forward or take turns. On other ocassions, the bed wraps around my legs, or Lilith pushes me inside her womb. I also float in different directions; Up, down, sideways, forwards and backwards. I am physically stationary when these things happens, but not in the astral plane.

Why are the both of you so afraid of the paralyses? Remove fear and give trust to your spirits instead. Removing the threshold of fear, will make the difference and the experience will be damn awesome.

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@succupedia

My subconscious fear of sleep paralysis started a few years ago. I was awake for a week, high as fuck on cocaine, XTC and other drugs and I was having hallucinations due to sleep deprivation. At that time I didn’t knew anything about sleep paralysis or the paranormal world, or lucid dreaming. I was just a normal guy living his life full of partying and socializing etc.

So when I was awake for 5 days, the drugs began to wear off, leaving me incredibly exhausted, but at the same time I had still surging energy through my veins from that drugs cocktail, so I was in this special “time window” to induce optimal sleep paralysis within seconds lol, without even knowing this.

Normally the key with sleep paralysis is lying still, not moving any parts, and waiting for a “roll-over” signal, your body will do this to see if your mind’s asleep, if you proceed, you’ll get into sleep paralysis, but I had it without all these tricks.

The moment I went to lie down a bit, I went into full sleep paralysis and I panicked. I was screaming for help, heck, I even screamed for my mom, but you cannot talk obviously. I didn’t knew what the fuck was happening and I felt a pressure on my chest, and I saw several dark figures standing in my room, so I was totally losing it :joy::joy:

I wasn’t involved or didn’t had any knowledge about paranormal world / astral world at that time. This all happened in 2012-2013.

I’m only for one year on this path, like 1,5. In the summer of 2017 I began researching everything and it started to make sense. Actually I find it stupid that I had to experience it like that. I’m trying to get into sleep paralysis every night, with my succubi companions.

And in combination of watching way too much horror movies about ghosts and other scary stuff that left me a bit traumatized. Maybe I overthink things way too much.

But I talked to my succubi companions about this, they know it.

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I’m not totally caught up on all of the comments here, but I can talk a little about my experience with my incubus. I have actually followed Erik Vinoth at summoningsuccubus.com on how to interact with him and he’s been spot on at least for me. Now some will say that Erik doesn’t have specific rituals to summon a succubus/incubus, and this is true. (I have his two ebooks on the subject.) But what I have found to be useful is his suggestions on relaxation and focus. You’ll be surprised at how this can help draw your succubus/incubus to you.

In my case, I knew that a particular incubus was interested in sex with me. I just didn’t know how to bring him to me in that way. After about two days of practicing relaxation and breathing techniques, I had a couple of very vivid dreams of my incubus making love to me and then finally one day… it was on! I’ve spoken about this in other posts.

Anywho, for weeks - maybe a good straight month - he came to me every night. Then it began to be more like 4-5 nights a week and then a bit less than that. But this taught me something.

I believe our succubi/incubi have personalities. I’m sure someone has talked about this in the forum before. Mine for example would make love a little bit over a few days until there would be this grand finale of just straight up orgasms for 1-2 days. Although orgasms could happen on any day (and they have from time to time), he builds up over a period of days. To me that’s his personality.

The other thing that I have discovered about contact with my incubus is FOCUS. Yes, you do have to relax, breathe but then focus is also necessary. I find that my incubus responds to me when I’m focusing on the different sensations I’m experiencing. You see, my mind wants to say that I’m feeling a sensation because I may be sitting a certain way (if I’m getting that root chakra tingle if you know what I mean) or maybe I was leaning on my arm and the reason I feel a tingle has to do with the blood flow in arm. But, that’s just what my mind thinks. What I’ve experimented with now (and this works better for me at night when my ego is too tired to argue) is believing these sensations are coming from my incubus. And then the sensations intensify and BOOM we’re back on.

Also, I can’t stress enough about your feelings towards your succubus/incubus. You know, relationships be they human-human or human-spirit take two people to keep things going. When you love them or have the feelings of love towards them, they will respond in kind. Offer your succubs/incubus something like flowers, drink, food. Read them love poetry if that’s you’re thing. It’s mainly about showing them love and affection. This has worked in my case so far.

So, for those who are having difficulties with your succubus/incubus being near or interacting with you be sure to:

(1) Do relaxation exercises. (Most importantly, don’t try too hard. Just relax and let things be.)
(2) Do deep breathing - just a 5 minutes will do.
(3) Focus on the minor sensations that you feel. For those who have already had experiences with your succubus/incubus, maybe think about the sensations you’ve already had with them.
(4) Project feelings of love. They love it and will respond.

Anywho, this is my experience. Hope someone here finds this helpful.

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Yes, that’s something I’ve said to myself and sometimes I still say when I’m in doubt. Doubt is probably what prevents me from moving forward, the fact that the results are less and barely perceptible doesn’t give me enough courage to do daily meditations or to speak regularly aloud, I do it from time to time, I trying to talk to them a little each day, but nothing. So, yes, of course it’s discouraging, when at the end of a year we have no conclusive result, it doesn’t promote motivation and progression.

I don’t think she wants to hear you say that you are a terrible person, you are that why she loves you, so a simple excuse with intent and feeling should suffice.
If not, do as before, try to talk to her again and reassess the meditation, maybe you would have some results :slight_smile:

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I’m the same, rationality always stays in my mind, so it’s hard to get rid of it. I imagine that you think that the small results that you had can be perfectly explained, so you only believe in 50% and doubt settles.

Personally, I don’t feel like magically dead, but as magically amorphous, the feeling of being blocked without any real reason.

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I never had sleep paralysis because I wanted it, the only one I did, is when I was young, I had a lot of stress, but it was almost the end, so I was relieved at the same time. That night I woke up at once, I could not move and at the door stood a sort of black-wrapped spirit that stared at me, it was getting closer to me slowly and I could hear like whispers. I can still remember how the 9-year-old self was terrified for what seemed like an eternity before I heard the voice of a boy who slept in the same room as me and heard me moan and cry. This boy wanted to go with me to see an adult, but even after I got out of my paralysis, I always heard the whispers. That’s why I’m afraid it left me with real trauma, probably because I couldn’t and still can’t tell if it was real or not.