Succubi Honest Opinion : Not Your Perfect Love [Update 3]

[JohnnyBoy]

Knew a guy who was absolutely ruled by his succubus. Poor guy was forced to be in bed with her for most of the time. Personally, I thought he should have stood his grown and told her no or at least make some form of compromise.

[JohnnyBoy]

Once I told my spirit wife I’d get a body pillow, said she’d burn it if I cuddled with it instead of her.

[Lady_Eva]

Updated at OP’s request to add a 10th point, also copied below here for those who read the first post:

@matrix77

10. Sexual Role is Opposite to Nature of Males :

Usually and in most times, human male plays the domination role in sexual activities between him and his partner, so he is considered as the main rider.

Why? naturally because he is the mascular one and he has got strength and powerful sexual energy. If a female is in a relationship with incubus, it will be the same thing, while for the male who encounter a succubus it’s totally different.

Human males will play the opposite role in their relationship with succubi, simply because the entity is not as physical as in a human relationship, as well as the relentless and lustful nature of the entity. Therefore, succubi will dominate the male partner and will be the main rider in sexual activities. Some males like to be dominated, while others don’t, because the succubus will control the rate of sexual activity as well as the climax.

Bumping with new update:

@matrix77

11. Hierarchy determines rate of energy exchange

Queens and Kings are very expensive and they can’t be in a relationship with any person easily and without any expenses, reflecting their preciousness and high value. Regularly and in human basis, when you want to have a partner that is highly rated and very famous/came from a high class family, you can’t get what you want easily because not every person is capable of meeting demands and standards of a model/princess/prince/queen or a king.

Likewise, succubus queens/incubus kings are different from regular succubus/incubus in terms. Most importantly in energy exchange, because they will require huge amounts of energy to keep themselves up in their own hierarchy, that’s how they keep their rank and greatness up in the tree of hierarchy among other spirits. Not everyone is capable of meeting these demands of energy.

A normal succubus/incubus can reach a higher rank to become a queen/king, and that happens if the spirit was able to manipulate and feed the high amount of energy required to become a queen/king that is stronger and more powerful.

[M_NM]

I completely agree with you.

[matrix77]

@anon69472442

Females stay as females regardless of race they belong to

Is the partner capable of making love fairly complete but not necessarily perfect?
It’s your view of it. This isn’t about female or male, it’s about true love that has all basic elements like strong deep communication, it’s the core of every relationship.

[Lady_Eva]

Updated with #12 as OP requested:

12. Energy Obsession and Parasitic Behavior

Succubi and Incubi are individuals, for sure. However, they have a common nature. They can get obsessed/addictive with your energy if you let them go wild. If you don’t have strong will, they will be able to have a great control over you. They have already analysed you physically and mentally over the period of the relationship. They know the weakness and the strength. They are intelligent.

If you give them too much freedom and very little discipline, it’s likely that they will target feeding your energy, simply because it’s a source of food and pleasure for them. They can suck your energy, for 12 continuous hours without getting bored at all, it’s simply a nature. Giving them too much energy will change them. They will become much stronger, you won’t be able to resist their urges as it will become relentless. They will vibrate energy every inch of your body to seduce you into them.

If you allowed them to get all what they want all the time, they will develop kinks and parasitic behavior, they will get obsessed with your energy, wanting it all the time and frequently asking you to give them energy.

[Falllenangelicstan96]

I enjoy having succubi, as spirit guides, and spiritual lovers, as I have a harem of succubi living my household, as I currently have three succubus sigils in picture fames hanging in my house, and one days soon have more.

[RaraAvis]

With #12 Energy obsession and parasitic behavior:

What are some ways of disciplining a Succubi/Inccubi or other spirits that have been with you for a very long time?

I would like to share that my experiances run the gambit from horrific to glorious and I know that this has all been for the sake of gaining knowledge. I would like to not be tired so much and be less passive in this than I have been lately.

[anon48079295]

@matrix77

3. Not always there

After a night with her\him, succubi\incubi get satisfied and leave somewhere for some period, it can be several hours or even days. Why this happens? You may wounder. It’s more like: I got what I wanted from him\her so know it’s time to leave. I don’t know. Of course you don’t want to go too far thinking deeply and negatively misjudging her\him, but it’s just controversial and causes weakness in the relationship itself.

I agree with this, I think many people forget these beings have lives outside of them, they can’t really just live on the energetic layer of our physical plane for their entire lives. there’s really nothing there for them, they can’t really interact with the world around them.

I find a lot of thirsty succubus wanting dudes tend to not see this either because they’re deluded by the fact they have “spiritual boo thangs” or they simply confuse the succubus energy lingering for them actually being there.

I doubt they’d choose to uproot themselves from their homes and family simply to live on that layer of the physical simply for the guy (or girl) who bonds with them, even guides and spiritual family come and go.

These beings have lives to live, jobs to do, and family lol. If they’re there 24/7 it’s quite possible that they’re not what you think. Though I don’t think it’s a quick hit it and quit it if it’s a deep bond but it’s most likely not a uproot and stay by your side forever literally.

[Maxwell]

I always thought they could just be in multiple places at once.

[Falllenangelicstan96]

wow so truth

[anon48079295]

They only have one body, but while capable of bi-location just like us, it costs energy

[Maxwell]

fair nuff

[Falllenangelicstan96]

how can we be capable of bi-location?

[anon48079295]

Partial projection is a form of bi-location.

[Falllenangelicstan96]

oh I never knew that, i might have to look that up and learn about it

[Maxwell]

Yeah I do bi-location a lot.

[Mind_Seeker20]

1. No communication is ever perfect - even with humans.

2. They won’t feel physical unless you take the time to work on your senses.

3. This really depends on a individualistic basis. Some yes, won’t be there all the time but some relationships are quite committed - they may not be there every second but some relationships are quite like close human relationships. It’s different for everyone.

4. Any contact with spirits will attract other spirits - just being spiritually open attracts things. While YES having sex does attract spirits I don’t think it is such a HUGE difference.

5. Having contact with ANY spirit will have some sort of influence in your life. Most people here are working with and ASKING spirits to influence their lives lol.

6. Sure sounds like it.

7. Just like any human relationship you can either get someone good for you, who makes you happy and “feel” good after being around them - or you can get someone bad for you, who is one sided and drains you. Believe it or not, spirits aren’t the only ones that drain lol. That just means you don’t have good boundaries. Also I’m a very creative person and that has not lessened any.

8. We all have darkness, if you can’t face yours then don’t try and face a spirits. That simple.

9. Haven’t faced this issue, everyone’s bodies will react differently though. Doesn’t mean malicious intent all the time though.

10. If guys can’t handle not being “dominant” or the “alpha male” then too bad. It’s not right for those guys. I think this one comes from a hurt ego and what is “deemed” nature.

11. Humans have hierarchies too, which requires more recourses as well and more time.

I think this is mostly based off of wishful thinking that got soon realized wasn’t a part of reality. The title says it, perfect doesn’t exist.

[MyloveV]

#8 is one of the truest statements I’ve read on here @Mind_Seeker20. I have been reading Carl Jung’s “Man and his symbols” and would HIGHLY recommend it to anyone that hasn’t read it. Not Freudian bs, a metaphysical look at us as lowly humans trying to gain a higher conciousness. Specifically confronting our “Shadow” or our subconscious self, and accepting our darker side to gain better control of our complete self. I had put it down for a bit. Thanks for the reminder/kick in the ass I needed to pick it up again. Peace brother