This is a subject rarely spoken of in this forum, so I thought of starting a thread about it.
Allthough there’s alot of differences when it comes to these kind of relationships, there seems to be one thing that often comes up regarding spirit wives/husbands: They’re always been in our lives, passively watching and patiently waiting for us to take that first step of contact. Other people have “confirmed” a similar answer from their spirit partner.
Even if these kind of arrangement is different from one another - depending on your own familyvalue and traditions, and the tradition of the entity/spirit themselves - the confirmation and “approval” is based on mutual agreement between the couples involved and a “final settlement” from a Source of a higher hierarchy. Why that higher Source need to approve the arrangement is, as I see it and as my own ladies explained, is to make sure we all are certain of the choice of commitment. The basis of “free will” is not taken lightly and is seen by their kind as something of great importance.
Why people call them “Succubus” or "Incubus"
The words “Succubus” and “Incubus” originated in the 14th century, which is latin for “to lie under” and “to lie upon”. These words were invented by church and the spirits or entities became demonized by the same constitution. Sex and intimacy is considered a “sin”, hence they were called “demons”.
The duality perspective
When the aspect of “free will” is of importance for the human perspective, it is just as important for them. That often means that there can be darkness and light in their energies and their personality. But it seems that often one of these energies is dormant and the other is active. Most of us doesn’t experience their darker energies, but few of us do experience both darkness and light. I really don’t know why it is like that, but it happens for a reason, whether it’s about challenge or just to grow spiritually.
Masters of magic
Their knowledge in magic should not be underestimated by human practitioners. They have - in contradiction to us humans - easy access to their realm and can evoke other entities or spirits to us. They can use protection spells and rituals with or without doing our “bidding” for us. They also have great knowledge in healing.
Maybe I see my ladies differently because of a long term commitment. But being in a relationship like ours, might reveal more than what myths and legends often do just for the joy of a short experience. For me, the term and niche of “Succubus” and “Incubus” brings a great wall of ignorance and naive simplicity of what they actually can accomplish as a companion and life partner.
Disclaimer: This is based on my own experiences and should not been seen as “facts” in any way.