I talk about using magick to attract a partner. Yes, there are some ethical issues to that, but I stop myself under two issues.
- I’m not confidant enough to think I’m attractive.
- I’m scared of placing my worth on sex, thus losing my sense of self.
So because of 1 and 2, I just don’t do it. However, drawing someone to you is one thing. Cursing them is another. I don’t read those posts. I don’t know what happened to them. I consider a curse okay to use if its self defense or someone has done something really harmful to you or someone that you care about. It may just be the person is mad over something trivial. If so, they should just vent their anger and move on. I got mad when some girls shewed me away when I wouldn’t pay for their drinks. But, who cares. They’re gold diggers.
If I curse someone over trivial shit, I’d only be pushed further and further into the role of that creepy guy in horror movies who hurts people when he doesn’t get his way. Which the “Cursing your ex” thing makes you look just like him. So yeah I see those posts. But I just ignore and silently disagree with their actions. But I’m not the moderator.

