So I got a story for y'all

Yep but look who really gets the bars and chains:

Today, nearly 25 million children have an absentee father.1) According to the professional literature, the absence of the father is the single most important cause of poverty.2) The same is true for crime. Of all adolescents, those in intact married families are the least likely to commit delinquent acts.3) Children of single-parent homes are more likely to be abused, have emotional problems, engage in questionable behavior, struggle academically, and become delinquent.4) Problems with children from fatherless families can continue into adulthood. These children are three times more likely to end up in jail by the time they reach age 30 than are children raised in intact families, and5) **have the highest rates of incarceration in the United States.**6)

Source: Effects of Fatherless Families on Crime Rates [Marripedia]

Product of the “sexual revolution” which was based on the dogma (unfounded belief that facts tend to disprove) that people can have random sex with strangers (which any children born will naturally accomodate themselves to) and that this will improve society and increase personal happiness.

But with respect, that’s also dogma - the miller’s wife, farmer’s wife, right back to the dawn of time did not sit on her ass watching daytime TV and pootling about with a feather duster as her husband did all the work, she was up before dawn milking cows, nursing sick lambs, working in the fields.

We have actual art and literature to demonstrate that lower-class women always worked, and damned hard as well, they just did it as part of a family unit and not as a set-up to try and compete with men.

Scottish highland farmers would near starvation each winter, living with all their remaining livestock in one building, often reduced to tapping blood as a source of nourishment from their animals (something usually associated with the Masai) to keep their livestock living until spring, when they could be rerleased outside to graze.

You want to go back in time and tell those woman that they’ve never really “worked”?

No, they really can’t though. A few classes will not make a woman the physical equa]ivalent of a man in a fight, because against the current dogma, we are physiologically different to men:

There’s no evidence that’s true and plenty of evidence against it, high crime rates, unplanned pregnancies, and lower income throughout lifetime plus higher rates of addiction are all found in children of single-parent families.

“The strongest predictor of whether a person will end up in prison, is that they were raised by a single parent”. C.C. Harper and S.S. McLanahan, “Father Absence and Youth Incarceration”, Paper presented at the Annual Meeting of the American Sociological Assoc., San Francisco, CA, 1998

In 1996, 70% of inmates in state juvenile detention centers serving long sentences, were raised by single mothers. Wade Horn, “Why There Is No Substitute For Parents”, IMPRIMIS 26, NO.6, June, 1997

The proportion of single-parent households in a community predicts its rate of violent crime and burglary, but the community’s poverty level does not. Source: D.A. Smith and G.R. Jarjoura, “Social Structure and Criminal Victimization,” Journal of Research in Crime and Delinquency 25. 1988.”

72% of juvenile murderers, and 60% of rapists came from single mother homes. Chuck Colson, “How Shall We Live?” Tyndale House , 2004, p.323

Growing up without a father could permanently alter the structure of the brain, and produce more children who are more aggressive and angry. Children brought up only by a single mother have a higher risk of developing deviant behavior, including drug abuse, new research suggest. Dr. Gabriella Gobbi, McGill Univ. and Francis Bamlico, Center for Addiction and Mental Health, publishing in the journal, “CEREBRAL CORTEX.”

Source: https://www.fixfamilycourts.com/single-mother-home-statistics

Again I have to say this isn’t about you, or even that poor girl and her child, it’s the poison and the dogma that’s at fault.

Which is why everyone is oh-so-happy and there are no lonely involuntary-celibate or involuntary-single people out there, and no people going crazy trying to get back the person they pair-bonded with through sex? :thinking:

Sorry mate, but that’s just dogma too, that “if we systematically attack committed loving relationships from every angle, the few people who can ride that out and commit prove it’s good for love!”… like this:

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Damn, I feel enlightened.

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Again, this really wasn’t meant to be about relationships. I just thought it was a crazy story of all you would want to hear. I admit, I participated in this madness. Or maybe I wasn’t clear. But this wasn’t about love or sex or anything. It was about someone going delusional.

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I did add in something about relationships, but that was to make sense of the fact I continued to tolerate her behavior.

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But, kind of where I came in with the first comment is that people are the product of their society, most people anyway, she went mad along very specific lines there, all about men, love, and sex. :man_shrugging:

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I like to add I think you are being a bit (lot) judgemental on that female. She sounds like she would fit along pretty well here, honestly.

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That’s fucking normal on the balg forum.

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I did mention she looked right at me like a serial killer, right? We all may be goof balls and misfits, but we at least know what we’re talking about, if we’re talking about anything, and acknowledge what we know and don’t know. She was bordering into possibly becoming abusive.

Saying she’d fit in is like a girl saying “I’m just like Harley Quinn because I’m weird.” No! There’s a difference between being a bit different vs actually being unstable. You’re not psycho because you’re into weird things. Yes, Harley quinn was abused and manipulated by the joker (who was himself a victim of certain circumstances, depends on the origin story), but that doesn’t excuse the fact she’s an insane criminal. Just the same as how this girl may have been a victim of her own circumstances and manipulated me, tried to abandon her daughter, and instantly declared she was the goddess and DEMANDED I leave my life behind to go to another country because she claimed to have a vision. I mean, I’ve dealt with my own issues, but that doesn’t mean I can avoid taking responsibility for the shit I do. If I were to do the stuff she did, as a male, string a woman along, leave behind a child, declare myself god and told a woman to do something incredibly irrational, and used guilt to make her feel obligated, I’d get arrested.

Plus, there’s the fact true magick forces us to confront our demons. Whatever she dealt with, she just decided to say “I’m the goddess” and leave it at that. What’s that called? Spiritual bypassing. I flaunt my lucifer sigil around to look cool and edgy, but I don’t use it to escape my problems.

And again, all of us here, she’d say we’re wicked and need to repent or something.

We have people calling for death curses on their exes though, so it’s not all kittens and rainbows, and obviously we only hear one side of things.

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Thanks for clarifying your statement a bit more with more context to it. Its a bit more understandable is all.

I thought you were just being harsh on her was all.

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And I think I’ve expressed some time I do not respect their decisions.

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I may just being harsh. I really didn’t know much of what was going in her life. She really just didn’t care to tell me. I’m not saying her life was perfect. My life isn’t, but I still try to show a basic respect to people. You know, Responsibility to the responsible. To the least she may have just been really immature. Saying you want to have sex with someone and not meaning it by itself is very disrespectful, and I think any woman who does that should be ignored.

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Yup, brave new world! :fist:

Practical answer would be to create a talisman, maybe of Mars, to keep the more damaged ones away, but that just means you risk being part of the process of creating new damage if the next girl falls for you and your quest for strange (or at least, “something better”) mandates you have to leave her after she’s bonded with you. Or vice versa of course.

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Oh shit, I’ve just discovered I’m the great god Zeus. Every woman has to suck my dick. Any who don’t will be turned into trees, or pigs, or gorgons and stuff.

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i wonder how this convo would’ve went if this chick were a dude

Things that make you go hmmm…

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I think I’ve been saying that…

Well, I may have dropped in some graphs about divorce rates based on number of sex partners of the woman, for “Miss” davethebarbarian. :thinking: :rofl:

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Unfortunately, the article mentioning Oxytocin and pairbonding did not detail their inverse relationship with increasing partners. Maybe the authoress thought it was ‘disempowering’, or was just scared to tell the whole truth? :thinking:

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Now you’re talking.