Yep but look who really gets the bars and chains:
Today, nearly 25 million children have an absentee father.1) According to the professional literature, the absence of the father is the single most important cause of poverty.2) The same is true for crime. Of all adolescents, those in intact married families are the least likely to commit delinquent acts.3) Children of single-parent homes are more likely to be abused, have emotional problems, engage in questionable behavior, struggle academically, and become delinquent.4) Problems with children from fatherless families can continue into adulthood. These children are three times more likely to end up in jail by the time they reach age 30 than are children raised in intact families, and5) **have the highest rates of incarceration in the United States.**6)
Source: Effects of Fatherless Families on Crime Rates [Marripedia]
Product of the “sexual revolution” which was based on the dogma (unfounded belief that facts tend to disprove) that people can have random sex with strangers (which any children born will naturally accomodate themselves to) and that this will improve society and increase personal happiness.
But with respect, that’s also dogma - the miller’s wife, farmer’s wife, right back to the dawn of time did not sit on her ass watching daytime TV and pootling about with a feather duster as her husband did all the work, she was up before dawn milking cows, nursing sick lambs, working in the fields.
We have actual art and literature to demonstrate that lower-class women always worked, and damned hard as well, they just did it as part of a family unit and not as a set-up to try and compete with men.
Scottish highland farmers would near starvation each winter, living with all their remaining livestock in one building, often reduced to tapping blood as a source of nourishment from their animals (something usually associated with the Masai) to keep their livestock living until spring, when they could be rerleased outside to graze.
You want to go back in time and tell those woman that they’ve never really “worked”?
No, they really can’t though. A few classes will not make a woman the physical equa]ivalent of a man in a fight, because against the current dogma, we are physiologically different to men:
There’s no evidence that’s true and plenty of evidence against it, high crime rates, unplanned pregnancies, and lower income throughout lifetime plus higher rates of addiction are all found in children of single-parent families.
“The strongest predictor of whether a person will end up in prison, is that they were raised by a single parent”. C.C. Harper and S.S. McLanahan, “Father Absence and Youth Incarceration”, Paper presented at the Annual Meeting of the American Sociological Assoc., San Francisco, CA, 1998
In 1996, 70% of inmates in state juvenile detention centers serving long sentences, were raised by single mothers. Wade Horn, “Why There Is No Substitute For Parents”, IMPRIMIS 26, NO.6, June, 1997
The proportion of single-parent households in a community predicts its rate of violent crime and burglary, but the community’s poverty level does not. Source: D.A. Smith and G.R. Jarjoura, “Social Structure and Criminal Victimization,” Journal of Research in Crime and Delinquency 25. 1988.”
72% of juvenile murderers, and 60% of rapists came from single mother homes. Chuck Colson, “How Shall We Live?” Tyndale House , 2004, p.323
Growing up without a father could permanently alter the structure of the brain, and produce more children who are more aggressive and angry. Children brought up only by a single mother have a higher risk of developing deviant behavior, including drug abuse, new research suggest. Dr. Gabriella Gobbi, McGill Univ. and Francis Bamlico, Center for Addiction and Mental Health, publishing in the journal, “CEREBRAL CORTEX.”
Source: https://www.fixfamilycourts.com/single-mother-home-statistics
Again I have to say this isn’t about you, or even that poor girl and her child, it’s the poison and the dogma that’s at fault.
Which is why everyone is oh-so-happy and there are no lonely involuntary-celibate or involuntary-single people out there, and no people going crazy trying to get back the person they pair-bonded with through sex?
Sorry mate, but that’s just dogma too, that “if we systematically attack committed loving relationships from every angle, the few people who can ride that out and commit prove it’s good for love!”… like this: