My bestfriend was bi-curious for quite some time.
We had been flirting for a couple of months (i picked up on his curiosity and felt there is something there to work with)
2 months ago we made out (he was inhibited and initiated) and he admitted to liking the experience.
Only 2 days later, he told me that he thought it through and definitely isn’t gay (meanwhile still being strong on liking it but, as he said it, as a “one-off”). He said he had thought he was bisexual but doesn’t really feel that way and loves me as a friend (ouch). It all feels sketchy and i feel like that’s not the whole truth but whatever
First i want to say that we had fooled around with sensual touching before that happened and it didn’t particularly throw him off his questioning
Now, as to what is really going on - whether he isn’t comfortable with his feelings, or is straight, or is bisexual but doesn’t find me attractive, or would be up for sex but doesn’t feel romantic love, that i don’t know and definitely won’t get an answer by talking to him
I’ve searched for similar topics but found them to be mostly very extreme (almost impossible) attempts.
I bought a copy of “Demons of Magick” by Gordon Winterfield (as i saw someone here having a great success from using one of the rituals described there). I was thinking of utilizing Orias or Dantalion
Does anyone have any experiences or thoughts about this? Would a love/attraction spell do anything here? I feel like there is something to work with here (I would say he is 1-2 on the Kinsey scale) so perhaps his desires could be widened. The only thing i worry about is whether there is still something to build on (in case the kiss really killed all his curiosity). It doesn’t really help that he’s got himself a girlfriend either, but i’m willing to fight for love! lol
PS: sorry for the formating & if you have any questions i can go more in-depth