I did the ritual to end a relationship from Magickal Attack by Gordon for 31 days. I was so confident that it was a month and did the ritual only for 31 days. After 3 days I realized that I was supposed to do the ritual for 33 days. As soon as I realized this, I completed the ritual so I meet the requirement of doing it for 33 days. Since there is 3 days gap in between and I did not miss any other days, do you think I should redo the entire ritual again for another set of 33 days? It does mention that if you stop before 33 days, reconciliation is highly possible. Would like to get some inputs/thoughts on this.
Background info: Two days after I finished 31 days, it did seem like everything was normal between the targets. Up until then, it was rocky. I assumed it was one of those things where targets become close before pulling apart for good.
Illumia, that makes me wonder, is it a set rule to do the ritual for 33 days or can it be done for less # of days or more depending on how the person connects to the spirits?
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Tbh I don’t fully get the need to do a ritual for 33 days in a row, when you could do a single ritual to a number of spirits from say, the goetia, and have one of them break up the relationship. Seems like a lot of time investment for something so simple for Magick to accomplish
I believe the 33 days is needed because you’re using your energy to achieve the desired result, not only counting on the spirit. If ritual was a simple petition then once would be more than enough as you mentioned.
Still very long ritual, I think because they’re keeping in mind possible resistance from the couple. It’s difficult to cause change when a free will is involved, not impossible but takes more time. I think.
Also it could be a factor that this is one of their early books. Published around 2015 as I remember. The same time Brand’s rituals used to be for 11 days. On the other hand. Angels of Wrath, was published after that, 2016/17 probably, includes rituals to break up relationships and should not performed for that long. Once or 3 times max. So maybe their understanding of the time needed to achieve results was changed later.
Fair enough, but I mean…one could argue that pretty much any mind altering objective could come across some resistance. 33 days for something I’ve seen done time and again with a simple sigil Magick session to Asmoday feels like overkill
You are hurting. He continues doing what he does for the effect it generates. Prevent yourself from losing more energy than he already sapped from you. Simply take your attention off him. Turn the page. I wish you well.
He is not attacking you because you didn’t do anything to prevent anger. He is just naive and has a massive ego. He shows off the girl that he has to the world because he somehow thinks that she is the prize (common for men who fall for mind games).
She isn’t a prize though. What kind of girl starts something with a man who is already engaged? And how long would a girl like this will stay satisfied with this situation before she starts causing issues? I’ve met girls like her and they are full of insecurities and they are highly manipulative. Sometimes they even want to steal the man for an ego boost.
If you break them up with magic you would be doing him a favor.
In my opinion he ain’t worth to take him back because he is not clever. However, if you still want to break them up for whatever reasons, you need to do a layered up ritual. I am not an expert on those things to give you further advice but I hope I led you to the right direction.
Thank you. Yes it would be nice to do that. The ending was not okay though. I was drained of everything I had by the end. I agree with you on one level and will try. But the emotions are not letting up at all. His behaviour at the end was truly psychotic and not human and I probably need real therapy but I doubt it would help me honestly. But I do agree with you. Eventually I will be there. Thank you and I know you are right.
thanks for pointing that out