I want to bring my ex back and I’m planning on performing a love rite, but first I believe I need to destroy his relationships with other people that may be influencing him: his mother (they have an enmeshed relationship, and he feels guilty about leaving her despite her being very capable and independent), his sister (they fight periodically, so she’s probably the easiest influence to separate from), and his band/new friend. He became very close with a new friend who invited him into his band, and since then he seems convinced he wants to be a rockstar—which may be reinforcing his desire for independence. What rite can I perform to destroy those relationships so it’s easier for the love/obsession one to work. I know it doesn’t sound good, but maybe this is just how it needs to be.
If you are wanting to alienate the target from his friends and family, then you are not acting out of love, you being controlling. You are treating the target like a piece of property to be possessed.
If you want to go ahead with the baneful work, then do so, but don’t delude yourself into thinking you actually love this person. If you love someone, you want them to be happy, you don’t try to cut them off from everyone else. A love rite won’t work because you don’t actually love them.
You’ve been posting about getting an ex back since 2022 - is this the same one? You also had this: Obsession [I bound a target and forgot to undo it, now he's obsessed and sick] - is that another guy as well?
You have way too much messy love magick out there, and this is not working. You can’t have (or want anymore) all these people and the unresolved energies are going to conflict. The effect you can get is backlash that makes you needy and obsessed more and more until you go mad.
I suggest you have a huge clean up, break the hexes on every other person that is now off the list first and then start over.
Abbadon, Amon or Andras can cause disruption to friendships and other relationships. Aim can disrupt home life, and is done on the target not the whole house or family.
It would be easier to work with Dantalion or Paimon to get them to like you, and see you as good for him,
So, this seems conflicting - rock stars travel on the road a lot, playing for shows and marketing the band. There are even songs written about how they wish they’d spent more time with loved ones. If he’s up for this, there’s no issue with leaving his mom by herself, for up to several months at a time while he’s touring.
Isolating him from family and friends is probably not the solution. You can do that and still not have him be interested in you. It sounds like he’s using them as an excuse.
Actually, that was another guy. I hired an obsession rite and it worked, that same guy is still desperately trying to get me back ever since and he sounds crazy sometimes, his heart races in a weird way when he sees me and he thinks he is in love with me, I’ve had my revenge with him and he is still there. It definitely worked but I don’t want him anymore.
So this one is another guy, and I do care about him very much, he is just not interested in talking to me ever again and honestly I don’t know what else to do.
Could it be possible that the energy of the previous guy is blocking my recent relationship?
How can I get a cleanse? I don’t know what the steps are
Thanks for your insight, you are right maybe the family is just an excuse although he does care a lot about what they think and he always felt guilty for not being with them because we lived together.
I made some mistakes which I’ve corrected and I need him to want to get back with me starting with him wanting to talk to me to see how things have changed. It sounds to me like I have to cast different spells for this to work.
Thank you so much for your help
Have you ever asked the goetic demon Sitri? He is really interested in what youre talking about.
Since it’s occurred to you to think about it this way, this could be your intuition giving you this information.
If you break the curse on the first guy and that unblocks it, that would show this is correct.
But it could also be a simple case of “like attracts like” - by putting energy out there of unrequited love, what goes around comes around, and now that energy is reflected back to you.
Interesting. I just feel like they are getting in the way. What else could work then? I don’t want to make him obsessed like the other guy. I just want him to think I’m good for him and come back.
I would do a working to get the target’s family and friends on your side. You will catch more flies with honey than with vinegar, as they say. If they are as influential on the target as you seem to think, then swaying them over to you, would turn that influence in your favour. When friends and family think you are good for him, then generally, so will the target.
No, but I might try this. Thank you