If you look for Koetting and Evocation you will find a youtube video.
The steps I’ve put here:
You have spirits who do love and lust. Have a look at this forum on Dantalion, Sitri or Lust.
Or there are spells like: come to me.
Here is a good lecture on lust spells (be careful what you wish for), with a lust spell if you’re sure: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DnA_RoMmDLs&t=61s