Hey everyone! 
I post a lot about personal matters and if that’s bad I am sorry. I like to hear opinions about my specific situation though.
So if you saw my previous posts, based on them you can tell I’m thinking about getting someone back (lol - cliché, ik). Anyway, this is going to be my last question on the topic that I post.
- Which spells do I cast?
- Who do I ask for help with them?
- Can I cast them without any help of spirits?
Okay, so: my target is still kind of in contact with me (but not directly). She sometimes texts me about random stuff which is weird to me, it seems like she’s resentful or seeking attention/comfort, i can’t tell. The thing is, she can text me but then I usually keep it going for like 1/2 minutes, then she goes to sleep (she does not but she says so).
She watches my instastories and indirectly talks to me through twitter posts (i don’t interact with them tho). She also likes my tiktok reposts. Oh, and she changed layouts of her profiles on social media, not on all though. We still match on some. When we text, it’s for 2 minutes max, once in 2 days up to a week.
She said she completely lost feelings for me. She’s resentful about how I would be toxic long ago and it is really weird to me because it was okay between us before August even though I was acting bad long before August this year. So why would she want to leave and tell me it won’t work because of the past if for all of those months we would be together but the moment I show effort and genuinely change it’s bad? That is very confusing to me, and:
that is why i still don’t know where to start. I can’t contact her myself btw. I want her to reach out to me herself, I want her to committ to me and see that everything is fixable if both parties want to committ to each other. I need the results to be permanent. We officially broke up for like the 7th time since September on October 25th. Why 7th? Because every ‘breakup’ before would be forcibly saved by me. I would convince her it’s not worth it but this time it did not work because of the ‘no contact rule’ i brought up (it went wrong).
I was thinking of baneful magick (big obsession spell), love spells, communication spell, road opener, sweetening… There is too many and it makes it difficult to me because I don’t wanna mess up since I am a beginner. Last time I casted a love spell was in 2021 and it backfired (the target completely cut me off and didn’t come back). So this time I want to be extremely cautious.
I was thinking about writing a petition to Duke Dantalion, so any thoughts about this? I’m not sure how would it work though. I feel like I could truly believe in the power of the possible spell only if I used candle magick. And I also dont know if that petition is a good idea.
About the target I can say she is very easy to influence but she has been very stubborn recently about this, like I said, also claiming she completely lost feelings. Her mother suffers with christian spiritual psychosis so could it get in the way anyhow? The target herself is an atheist though, but she is wearing a necklace with Jesus on the cross for protection from nightmares and it genuinely helps her.
Today I bought her a gift for her birthday and we talked about it a little. She said she wouldn’t like anything romantical “if that’s okay” (citing her). I believe this is because she would just feel very guilty for leaving.
Please share your thoughts with me and answer to the 3 questions stated above if you can. Thank you.