I’ve been working with this girl for about nine months now, and recently, I’ve become completely obsessed with her. At first, I just thought she was cute—nothing special, no deep attraction—but now in the last week or two, out of nowhere, it feels like I’ve been overtaken by something beyond my control.
For context, I’m an attractive guy with plenty of options, so I don’t usually fixate on anyone like this. I don’t have attachment issues, nor do I lack female attention, so this level of obsession feels unnatural.
Over the past few days, my thoughts about her have intensified to the point where it feels unhealthy. It’s as if something external has shifted, and I can’t shake the feeling that this isn’t just normal attraction.
Last night, I performed a love spell on her, hoping it would release some of this pent-up energy and help me move on—but today, the obsessive thoughts have only gotten worse.
Here’s where it gets more complicated: she has a boyfriend. That said, she’s definitely given choosing signals, and from what I’ve heard, their relationship isn’t great. Apparently, the guy is kind of a bum, and things between them aren’t the strongest.
So now I’m wondering—should I focus on a breakup spell first before doing anything else? Could my love spell have amplified something unintended? Would appreciate any insight on how to approach this situation, and where this obsession may be coming from.
If she’s cast an obsession spell on you and you did a love spell on her to attract her to you, then sure your thoughts of her are going to amplify. It seems like she’s done just that, cast an obsession spell on you. Who knows. Do divination.
Being obsessed with different girls is completely normal I’ve been obsesing over different girls for a long, in fact I’m obsessed with girls that I haven’t seen in over 7 months and I’m obsessed with girls that I see every day, but I only become obsessed with girls that aren’t interested in me, alot of times they hate me, but that’s not why I’m obsessed with them, I just can’t control it…
Sounds like you are experiencing some of the Love Spell you generated. If its not that, then maybe she is at least unconsciously returning the attraction. My opinion only, you should Reverse the attraction and go hardcore into it focusing on other things you love. If she is into you she will come around and make contact in some form.
Question is do you want to be obsessed with her and move towards that? Or do you not want to be obsessed and block it? If this person is in shitty relationship already and is not making the moves to end it. You will most likey end up being a rebound relationship. Are you ok with that? If not i would suggest upping your protection and banishing her spell.