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I’ve never heard of such a thing. As a mage, I would say make up something that is personal and meaningful to YOU personally, not anyone else, and aligned with the intent of the ritual, make it yours and it will be more powerful than anything you get 2nd hand which may have had a different goal in mind. You don’t want herbs for vengeance if your interest in Lilith is seduction for example.
Having said that, BALG contributor Belladonna’s Botanicals does do ritual oils (and I use her Return to Sender oil myself t good effect), looks like she does do a Lilith Ritual Oil as well as a Lilith Flying Ointment if you want to check that out.