Yeah this is all classic parasite behaviour, and a VERY common problem.
Most modern grimoires assume you know this and don’t warn you to keep your spiritual hygiene on point before doing anything. We have hundreds of posts here from people still struggling with impostors and nasties trying to drink your milkshake and they never got through to the main act.
We have tutorials on how to recognise these and everything you say it pretty much in the tutorial: if it does this, it’s a time waster banish and cleanse.
There’s never any such thing. If this is told to you it’s also listed in the tips to avoid parasites. They’ll also tell you they love you, that you’re the princess/prince/wife/child of some big-name entity, it’s all bullshit. They make big promises and say they’re big names and not only can’t follow through they feed on you while doing it.
The difference between an impostor and a parasite is the feeding aspect. No Goetic entity needs your milkshake, they are Djinn and gods, they have their own sources of power, parasites don’t that’s why they’re parasites.
Here’s some tips to not get caught in this again.