Need Help In Love Magick With Beleth

Love, Sex Magick & Relationships
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A while ago, I did a ritual intended to deepen a man’s love and attachment toward me. Instead of bringing us closer, it seemed to trigger intense conflict, emotional distance, and a 21-day no-contact situation after a major fight. Eventually I reached out and reconciled with him, but he returned with a much colder mindset, saying he no longer wanted the relationship in the same way. During divination afterward, I consistently saw energies of resentment, emotional dissatisfaction, avoidance, and a desire to move on.

Because of this, I’m unsure whether I approached the spirit/current incorrectly, moved too fast, or worked with energies that were too forceful for the situation.

I’ve also worked with Dantalion before through Demons of Magick by Gordon Winterfield. Those workings produced noticeable emotional effects and contact, but the results didn’t feel stable long-term. The best experience I’ve had so far was with Sitri-type passion work, which successfully increased attraction and passion between us.

However, what I truly want now is something deeper: emotional maturity, care, understanding, softness, commitment, and eventually a natural, loving long-term relationship that could grow into marriage.

The person I’m dealing with has a very avoidant attachment style, so I feel that aggressive domination-style love work may create resistance instead of closeness.

I would really appreciate advice from practitioners who have experience building love work gradually and naturally. What kind of ritual sequence would you recommend? Should I first focus on healing/emotional opening before attraction work? When is it appropriate to approach Beleth again, if at all? And how do you structure softer long-term love workings without creating backlash or emotional burnout in the target?

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Had this kind of thing happen before. I reckon Beleth is telling you that this man doesn’t hold the kind love that you’re trying to manifest from him. These things are often not because you pissed off the spirit, but rather that the notion is squeezing blood from a stone.

Ask him to lead you to the kind of partner you want. A more open-ended request.

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I understand where you’re coming from, and I do get why that approach makes sense from a general perspective.

For me though, it doesn’t feel like I’m trying to force something out of nothing. I genuinely feel a real connection with this specific person, and my intention isn’t just to create love in abstract—it’s to nurture and deepen what already exists between us.

I’m not really in the space of looking for someone new right now. My focus is on understanding how to work with this connection in a healthier, more balanced way so it can develop into something stable and committed over time.

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“Typically that would be the case, but not with this person“

If I had a dollar for every time I heard a bloke say that. . .

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I understand what you said—But I want to clarify something. The ritual I did with Beleth was not like that. In that ritual, I asked for him to have insatiable sexual desire for me. However, the result turned out completely opposite. Also, at the time I did the ritual, there was already some conflict going on between us, which later escalated into an aggressive fight and eventually turned into 21 days of no contact and the rest I explained already … That time i dint know about the BALG forum i was a complete beginner neither did i set an offering nor i tried to do a ritual with beleth…

I respect your pov and advice . but what’s the point of using magic if i need to give up on a 7 year old relationship? we did have some great sexual experiences together after the ritual like when the reconciliation happened but not the way i wanted it to be….

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well if you have had conflicts prior too it, then I don’t think Beleth is the right spirit too ask while Beleth can help with lust and sexual experiences, Beleth is also a very dark, intense spirit that can also be unpredictable, so if the relationship is already in some kind of turmoil, involving Beleth can atleast in theory make things worse.

I would recommend trying to speak with Duke Sallos and resolve any of the underlying conflicts.

also if you ask for something and a spirit grants it too you, and if you aren’t happy with the results regardless of what the results was, then you should do some self reflection, blaming the spirits for things not going exactly how you wanted long term, isnt necessarily on the spirit(although it can be if the spirit is trying too teach you something)

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I understand, and I am not blaming any spirit. I actually did some incorrect spiritual work 6–7 months ago,

( with lack of proper knowledge , desperation, ethics or understanding how the result manifests is all deoends on the state of emotions I have)

And after that I have reflected a lot on the results. I’ve spent time understanding what I did wrong, what I should have been more mindful of, where my mistakes were, and things like lust for results.

Through this process, I’ve learned a lot about myself and worked on those issues. After that, I moved on to working with Dantalion and Sitri which gave me very amazing results.

However, I’ve noticed that my rituals don’t seem to produce long-term results. They only work for a short period of time.

Now I’m trying to understand what I should change—either in my approach to rituals or within myself—to achieve stable, long-lasting results. That’s why I’m asking for guidance.

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well I think results are generally easier for short term outcomes anyways, because life itself is inherently unpredictable.

sure some spirits associated with protection and stability might help midigate such effects, but at the end of the day there is just no way too make sure that everything runs smoothly all the time, as what you want and or need. are likely too be effected either conciously or unconciously by other people(regardless of wheter they are some kind of practitioner or not)

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This seems to be the most common outcome of live magick .. you tried to overcome his free will, which is highly Baneful and qualified as a psychic attack.

This attack causes the target to notice you as a predator or adversary, and so the fight you or run away from you, or both.

Love magick is a misnomer really, it’s domination magick. There are ways to get it to work if you leave room for it to be their will to build on potential. When it fails badly and backfires, it can mean there was no potential, as far as I can tell.

In that case you have to change mindset to get on board with the domination aspect, look for and break protections and overcome free will. Bear in mind you will need to top up the working as this sends people slighly mad, can cause obsession and other mental-emotionsl disorder, but also that they heal and the relationship won’t last because it was never real.

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Then What is the right approach to cause no damage but to sweeten this relationship and make it last longer ? I mean Love workings/spells are not bad, everyone do it. please help me with right petitions and spirits

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You have created damage to the relationship, that blocks love - so adding more love makes no difference. Contrary to popular opinion, love is not blind, it’s an evolutionary reproductive drive - this is primate level hard-wiring and not even fully conscious behavior - and you have implied you are not to be trusted as a partner or more importantly, as a stable and living mother. T

rust once broken is very hard to get back. It’s not impossible, but takes time and patience, which you are not giving.

But you are not the only creator being in this - the other person’s intentions and will also matter, and as they are on the defense, they have the upper hand. It’s not all about you.

So my advice would be to call out to Foras, who can help understand a loved one. You have to meet his needs as well as him meeting yours, and this fight didn’t do that.
Use that understating to first figure out what he needs, and decide how you can meet them, and then show him that you can.

This is where Dantalion comes in, to help him listen and see your side, and be open to the idea that you have changed.

And then you have to also change yourself - understand why you reacted badly and how to resolve that issue in yourself. Belial is very good at self understanding. Also look into shadow work. Then any promised you make to handle differences with calm communication are more likely to be ones you can keep.

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