I have a difficult target, I had done spells on him successfully, I did Damon brands magickal seduction ritual 1 and I got what I wanted, sex with him a few times but He keeps leaving! Comming back and ghosting me
I want him to stay and I want a love spell that makes a strong emotional connection towards me
any advice? I have tried a candle spell with blood 2 nights ago, I had some of his belongings (clothes and a letter he wrote) which I used
No movement yet
anyone have any advice for me?
Do we have advice for you!
Check out the part where it lists the entities that have specific talents. I forget who but at least one brings love from sexual attraction. Try that one
Iāve never worked with a demon before the furthest I have got is Damon brands work I donāt know where to start
In that case, I would say stick to what you know and can do now, which is sympathetic magick.
Youāve done candle spells successfully, so build on that experience and adjust the attraction spell into a candle magick love spell.
ā¦ 3rd one down in the post I linked. Open that topic scroll to the top, and follow that.
CHANGE the exact wording to what you want, but keep the x3 x7 format.
Letās pretend his name is (random pick) Daniel, for argumentās sakeā¦
E.g. say 7 times:
Just as this candle burns, Daniel burns with love for me
Just like this candle melts, Daniel melts for me
Just like this candle drips, Daniel yearns for me
Your focused intention is very important. The flame is a portal for your will, so while you say this imagine as fully as you can, how you will feel when your love feels the same way you do. Picture how it will be together in the same loving energy and how happy that makes you.
If you feel a bit āmehā afterwards and wonder if you still care, you exhausted your will and thatās a very good sign. You do not want to worry that it didnāt work, that will kill it.
Whatās the difference between sympathetic magick and magick working with spirits (demons) etc
I did Damonās brand ritual 1 which I called upon spirits but they were not demons
Iām really curious and I do thing Iām ready to advanced into adding spirits to my work, but what do I start with ? And is it worth it? Will I get stronger and faster results
My results have been very on and off Iām not really happy , he keeps vanishing I want him to stay for good
Thank you
Itās stylistic. Sympathetic magick is ālow magickā, traditional witchcraft where you are only relying on yourself, and your link to the target. The candle is representing your love, hence the āsympathyā part.
Hereās a link about sympathetic magick.
Other examples are poppets/voodoo dolls, and witches ladders. Itās a very practical and more independent approach, and more freeform and open to personal adjustment. You can literally stand out in the woods/kitchen/bar, grab whatever is to hand and make it up as you go along.
Conversely, āhigh magickā is your ceremonial, ritual magick, where you donāt have a sympathetic representation of the target, you call an entity, tell the entity what you want, with all the intent and emotion stuff as part of that communication, and they do it for you. Typically rituals are proscribed and less open to editing, and need prior planning and often, more materials and ritual tools.
In practice, things tend to be a bit of both (a candle ritual is a good example of a blend of ritual and natural magick) and what you go with depends more on your personality, what you enjoy doing and how it makes you feel. Some people just adore the psychodrama of a good 2 hour fancy ritual, some do the exact same work with a bit of red thread, twisted paper and spitā¦ or nothing at all. āYou pays your money, you takes your choice.ā
So why do people choose to do high magick with entities ? is it because the results are stronger? Why doesnāt everyone just do sympathetic magick?
Iāve been practising a few years now and Iām honeslty getting a bit bored of the candle magick , i really want this man, what is it going go take?
Maybe perform it everyday at the same time to make it gain momentum, and otherwise let go in the time between? (Or, every friday at same time, as example)
As a practice to contain the obsessing.
I love a good āmehā feeling
I said, itās literally about personal preference. You know how they say, the best diet is the one you actually stick to? Pick a current or tradition, and practice. No one is better than the other, so go with what you can do, understand and enjoy the most, that fits your style and values.
It takes you, yourself and more youā¦ you get out what you put in.
If you want to try something new, maybe get your evocation on: look up āevocation tutorialā here and do oneā¦ Beleth will turn lust to love. Make sure your wards and on point and you can cleanse your space to make it nice and clear before you start, then you can be sure to avoid impostors and parasites, ground well afterwards.
Otherwise I just gave you a whole bunch of love tutorials, read through them and try something different. Or go buy a new book that looks cool and try that. Itās all up to you.
Here, go wild:
Two nights ago is a little too soon to tell.
That being said, you used your own blood and his belongings, so the bond is made and youāll be seeing results in the next few months, surely.
I did a rework of the second ritual from Magickal Seduction, in case you want to try it: Magickal Seduction: Ritual 2 Rework/Extended Experiment DON'T DO THIS, DOESN'T WORK
This is just common sense: donāt chase him. Do what he does, mirror him. If he pulls back and stops calling or texting, donāt do it either. If he only calls you for booty calls and he never offers anything else, reject him until (if) he does.
Magick is already working, but you have to do your mundane part as if you hadnāt done the magick. If somebody ghosts, chasing them will only push them further away. Let him show interest.
If months pass by and he grows more and more distant anyway, itās because the spirits are aware of something you are not, and he wouldnāt be a good match for you anyway.
Thank you, that book looks really intresting Iāll add it to my list, do you have any other reccomendations too?
honestly I am really drawn to sympathetic magick/sex magick/blood magick , but I have been practising so long I am open to new things just to experiment. Iām very drawn to demons and would like to try, but comfjsed where to start would I just pick a demon and call upon them with their sigil and ask them to do what I want? No candles etc ?
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Hey! Thank you , so ritual 2 is archangel hankel ritual? i did try that one and no results yet but Iām open to try it again soon, ritial 1 is where I got my results and he came back for sex a few times but like I said I want him to feel a deep connection with me and actually want to be with me and stop running away, ritual 1 is also not exactly easy I mean 5 days of sex magick itās a bit much but I will try it again soon
Heās actually got me blocked at the momentš¤£ so I feel a bit down , however my tarot cards are telling me he is having mostly positive feelings about me
Yes I have 2 of his belongings (handwriting and clothes) so hopefully it will do the job
Yeah you can do sigil magick to call them, for sure.
The Official Tutorial :D:
This is where itās easy to go wrong. Itās one thing to repeat rituals because you sense it was a damp squib, but itās another to redo just because it didnāt work and youāre worried, impatient and thinking it didnāt work.
This is what we call ālusting for resultsā in these parts, because thatās what the site Owner E.A. Koetting calls it. It will kill your existing workings, so if thatās what youāre going, relax, trust yourself and picture it all working for you. Donāt do more, you could mess it up.
Yep. But check my rework because I noticed the Genius (Sisera & Jazar) werenāt optimal for it.
Personally, I got awful results from that ritual (the original one from MS, not the rework). As soon as I started it, conflicts began between me and my target, and the connection ultimately ended. Many people had the same poor results too, which is why I thought of a rework.
Itās also a common denominator that the casters end up falling deeply in love with their targets, but the targets seem unaffected. Haniel used to be blamed for this, but itās actually because of Jazar.
Oofā¦ then you need to open him up to communication first. Youāll have to layer your workings.
- Isolate him to take away the competition (yes, thereās always more)
- Make him think fondly of you, open up his heart and mind to you
- Make him want to communicate with you
- Then make him want a relationship with you
What lead him to block you?
Donāt. Itās ok to repeat rituals if you think you said something wrong, or maybe you werenāt in the right mindset. Otherwise, itās simply showing lack of trust in the spirits and the magick itself, which could end up being a self-sabotage.
Do you know what itās funny you say that about the caster becoming obsessed with the target because thatās how I feel right now even though we have not had any contact for over a month. Constantly thinking about him, checking if he has unlocked me etc etc
he blocked me because well, he has avoidant attachment, he came to see me and everything was perfect, he left then he didnāt text me or message me and ignored me which upset me so I sent him a bit of a upset message, he then blocked me without a reaction he obviously got scared as I was too eager I guess.
oh god so you are telling me I need to do 4 different spells? Where do I start
So did my target, except it was me that gave up and blocked him. And yeah, the ritual made me obssesed just like you, so it was really hard for me to do itā¦ but my dignity and self-love comes first.
Can you imagine what a nightmare it must be to be in a relationship with an avoidant? Idk about you, but I love and need affection to be shown to me. I can now see an avoidant would make me greatly unhappy, and Iām glad I had the dignity to walk away. My target wasnāt what I needed.
Itās kinda rude to sleep with someone and ignore them afterwardsā¦ you had every right in the world to feel upset and express it. Unfortunately, some people canāt take being called out on their BS, and they block it so they donāt have to hear it. Like kids singing out loud so they donāt hear their parents calling them out on their BS, pretending it doesnāt exist.
Donāt you think you deserve better?
Of what? Of somebody feeling upset because they were used?
Really?!
Actually, no. I wouldnāt do any love workings on that guy. Curse the sh1t out of him so he learns some humility and starts treating people better.
@Jnomadik after all you went through with your situation, and you did so much work you started to manifest poltergeist activity in your house, what do you think on this thread, given you also have first hand experience?
Would you advise Clara keeps going or hang fire?