Maybe a strange question, but would you be able to get along in this life with a man and have a relationship with him, marriage and children who you 100 % know you had one of your past lives with and it ended with him killing you ?
I don’t see why not. The two of them are no longer the same person as they were in that previous life.
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yes, but I still feel this caution and slight resistance that I probably wouldn’t be able to be somewhere with him on my own ,and not at all near any water
I mean… has he done or said anything to give the impression that he might try something?
If not, I wouldn’t worry about it.
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I would probably never be able to trust 100% and I would still be on my guard.
If you ended up being with him in this lifetime as well it likely means you had an agreement in the astral to reincarnate with him, in such a scenario, else you wouldn’t be with him and would have chosen something different. So it would say it’s probably fine. What I say is based on astral travels from an experienced individual I know of. Some people can accept to incarnate with others, or set up rendez-vous at specific dates or duration, but again that’s based on what the individual said, didn’t verify that myself yet.
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I have a situation that paralells this, in that I have met a man and “it’s complicated”, but he died early in the past life. I think this connection is partly due to my past self spending the rest of my life feeling survivor guilt and wanting to do anything to get him back.
What I see now is it wasn’t working then and it’s not now. His dying was probably the best thing for me and I sabotaged myself out of emotional idiocy, but I couldn’t let go and I’m still having a hard time doing that now I have the clear opportunity and understanding. Part of me still feels responsible for him and I have to figure that out.
So I know I’m extrapolating/projecting here, but I wonder if the reason you have met is his desire for a redo where you can not go in that direction. I think it needs more insight into what happened and how he felt afterwards.
If that’s the case, and it’s not really you driving it, it might be easier to cord cut as it’s not really coming from you. He’ll have to work it out by himself.
If you still have the past life attachment to him then it’s probably both of you but the issues still exists, and you have an opportunity to clear that energy attachment and worked through it. That would be ideal so this doesn’t keep affecting other lives.
If this was me and my past life hubby had killed me, I don’t think I would risk having kids - not for me, but for them. Putting them into a possible repeat cycle where they lose their mom doesn’t seem fair to them, so letting that happen knowingly changes the energy and could add yet another layer of guilt for the next time around that you just don’t need.
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I understand, I really love that man, he loves me too, I only found out later, he doesn’t know about it. It was also a long time ago, during the time of ancient Rome …
The function of reincarnation that a lot of philosophies share is to gain some kind of experience. The function of clearing that memory after passing over to the next one, is to not get stuck on the past and being able to start your new set of experiences fresh and unburdened so the core of the spiritual being can progress. (Which is why I am not convinced things like regression therapy are really all that beneficial)
Neither of you are the same exact person you were one or several lifetimes ago. Whatever actions occured, they were not much more than expressions of the vehicle inhabited at that time.
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I’ve always interested what I was in a past life and now that I know at least about that one life specifically with that man, I’d rather not know. I don’t even want to know the other ones anymore
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I mean for me, sure. I’ve probably done bad stuff in previous lives. Could you imagine what life would be like if we were all judged based on something that someone said we did in a past life? How could anyone defend themself against that? You could say, “I didn’t do that,” and someone else could say, “Oh, yes, you did. You just don’t remember that past life.” Honestly, I would rather not be with someone who would accuse me in this life of something that I did in a past life than worry about what someone else did to me 2000 years ago.
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yes that’s true
I believe that if you have a previous life history with someone and you end up connected with them in this life it indicates unresolved karma - a cycle that was failed in some previous life now comes to surface again and the only way to resolve it is to confront it.
So avoiding it completely would be a mistake, but if he killed you in previous life when you were in a romantic relationship, maybe a romantic relationship is bound to end up in such a way? It might be a repetition of a cycle.
Some lesson has to be learned, likely for both of you, for this to resolve and for both of you to be free of it for the lives to come.
There is something about you two, likely both seperate and together, that led to such a dire outcome previously.
It may be that this cycle will be different as this is a different incarnation for both of you. But on the other hand it takes both of you to have learned your lesson for a cycle to resolve - if one of you, or both of you, fail, it’s likely to end up in a Saturnian way - constriction and pain will try to teach you again.
Regardless - no point in running from it, but in your place I would sit down and try to get as much information and think a lot about what made it end up in such a way in previous life. Having some idea why it happened and looking for indicators in yourself and him in this life, that you have changed meaningfully enough for the cycle not to repeat, should be something to focus on.
Seeing this saga continuing like so, I feel like it has a substantial weight for you - that weight can be used as leverage to navigate the situation towards Absolution, but remember to maintain a certain Temperance.
I have found myself in a somewhat similiar situation and to me this attempt at resolving the cycle has been rough to say the least - these types of situations have to do with very primal and powerful energies that relate to the Acausal closely and they also serve as the pinnacle and core of our existence in the Physical. Failures, or even the path to Absolution itself, are bound to be extremely intense.
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romantic relationship ? no…
He was a Roman army commander who entered my country and destroyed it, killed my father… and overall I was 17-19 years old at the time, he was around 40, and he basically kidnapped me, and I was his captive, and you can’t say it was “a romantic relationship”… and this lasted about half a year and then he drowned me in a lake, because his position and reputation were more important to him than me
Oh, sorry. I must’ve misunderstood your OP.
In that case maybe romantic relationship would be exactly what could turn this around. In any case, I don’t think this kind of reconnection can really be coincidence - it’s still worth looking at what was it about him then that made him kill you and if he shows these qualities now.
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only if i planned to kill him back honestly 
I don’t think you need to get involved in this life, and that might entangle the entities even worse so this carries on into other lives, and if it’s the last attachment for you then it could be what’s keeping you reincarnating.
When I said:
This is my attachment I’m working on dissolving… without getting into a relationship.
I got lucky and this person isn’t interested in a relationship anyway, where I was attracted at first… but that was just my animal being confused with the energy, because it was familiar and I thought strong connection meant something for an “us”, but that’s an animal impulse and not the spiritually meaningful takeaway.
(But I have issues in missalignment from being aware that I’m a spirit piloting a biomachine with a mind of its own, we seem not as well integrated as most humans are and It gives me jip.)
You can clear these energies single handedly, and have the opportunity now you’re now aware this exists.
In qigong as you get deep into the clearing of energy blocks, memories from past life events that created the blocks can surface spontaneously as well. It can take a long time, Event weeks to months to fully work them out, especially when they are big enough to be causing physical pain and mobility issues.
Getting help via the physical seems rare but perhaps a sign that like mine, this one is really important for you to resolve in this lifetime.
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Thanks for the reply but it’s too late… so we’re together now