Yeah the Wedding is deeply personal. Im married to two one whom has a very big audience and another that explores my Ancestors with me. For my spiritual Wedding I offered up both my Soul and Body as the gift and then received a new Soul and Body, which is acting as a transitioning point to another Soul and Body. Fyi one says one cannot go back or do thisnor that…but my offering and gift for a new Union wasnt placed upon the perceived present “local” intent, but rather True Total Intent/Desire/Will as seen as existing within a certain Dimension…as well as a physical space and time. What this means is that all things that happen now are just things to catapult me to my future ideal. I am always Evolving and doing Research on my Goddess and our Relationship (something we take seriously).
Now of course as far asbthe mixing of energies go in the past some people have said that shamans couldnt be into Demons. Such an individual was very misinformed about shamanism as they believe that one must sit around in a Drun circle or travel to the Amazon or whatever. Truth be told what defines a Shaman isnt so much all the superficial things they do, but rather their pacts with spirits and working and living with them day to day. This means itncould actually be any type of spirit…and one doesnt need to sit in a drun circle banging bongo drums if you have another way becausenit really is just natural spirituallity. The Shaman goes beyond average human limits and like me sacrifices his/her own Soulnand energy bodies and obtains the energy of spirits (mixing with their energy)…there are different levels of mixing energies and so basically my level of Marriage is essentially the same thing