Since this is the month of anniversary for me and my two spirits, I decided to share my experience of it and what we did to prepare for the big event. And since this is the day to celebrate a birthday of my “succubus” wife, this thread is also a dedication to her.
A spiritual marriage is a part of something bigger. Once this choice is made, there is no turning back. But the choice isn’t entirely yours, and not entirely the choice of the spirit. It needs consent from the human, the spirit and from a higher hierarchy, like an authority figure like Lilith herself or of someone even higher. If Lilith herself made a choice to marriage, the authority figure have to be someone else, preferable of someone with a similar rank or higher than herself. These steps do have a purpose and is seen as a precaution if someone might get a second thought.
Asking for marriage - The Proposal
Once the choices is made from human, spirit and the higher hierarchy, the preparations will get in motion. But the first step is to make a PROPOSAL, which is a basis to put your intentions out there for the spirit. That includes a gift of some sort - not necessarily a ring - as a “token of appreciation”. In my case I proposed with a brass diarykey which the spirit accepted as my gift. When the proposal is made and accepted from all parties involved, the first step of ascension is set in motion. This particular part can be extensive and last for days, or even weeks. It basically means that the human get spiritually “attuned” to the spirit, before the actual ceremony.
Preparations for - or planning of - the Big Event
During the preparation, I was walking in the city and was basically “windowshopping” with my spiritwife-to-be. First we went to a jewelry shop to find weddingrings of our choice by pointing at the selected ones. Then we went to a bakery to find us a weddingcake. In our case we choosed a liquorice, marzipan cake with three floors. It looked awesome and very delicious. Those were the main choices in the preparation, and it had it’s purpose. I’ve talked about astral- or ethereal “copies” in previous threads, and this is just like that.
When it comes to clothes, it was in the hands of the spirits and they actually tried several cloths on me and I physically felt these cloths in the astralplane, fully conscious and awake during the whole process. Even if I was fully awake, there were several other spirits there, measuring me to make the cloths fit perfect.
The wedding was in the astralplane, in a cave-like environment that had some resemblance to this picture:
That place was, literally, crowded with spirits and small hands applauding in front of my ears. They were constantly touching me and the air was thick with their energies. Some spirits, and deities, were famous and powerful and there was one of them that touched my forehead in a way to “mark” me with his blessing. Some of the guests was religious celebrities, such as Eve, mixed with mythological entities and spirits of different branches.
This was the first spiritual wedding, and there was more to come in the astralplane shortly after. I have shared a part of the other experiences there, but not about the wedding in itself.
How marriages between humans and spirits works, is entirely on a personal level. Your own beliefs of the union of marriage will affect how it will be on the astral plane. The spirits themselves have their own traditions, which will reflect on the preparations and the actual wedding. Once this union is made, there is no turning back.