Dating today really sucks like hell. For the ones that use astrology: I have Venus in 12/Pisces Square Neptune and opposing Saturn/Jupiter. Venus is conjunct Sun/Mars.
That already doesn’t make for stable relationships.
I have been very successful in manifesting partners that I wanted, but it really takes effort to keep them today. I have noticed that planetary influences should be used with Magick/Manifesting because if you have bad relationship transits, you can do as much Magick as you like, you’ll get partners that suck in the end.
For example, the love of my life, I manifested during a Uranus/Jupiter transit, that were closely conjunct my Stellium of Ven/Mars/Sun.
I don’t want to make this an astrological discussion, but I believe it should be considered if you want to manifest really big stuff. Jupiter for general luck, Chiron for Healing, Saturn for work.
I did the same rituals, but was never able to manifest a similar love like with that transit. That doesn’t mean others were not good, but compared to this person…maybe 55%.
When I look back, I do not think anyone loved me the way he did. But your Abilities to use Magick should actually improve over the years, right? That time, I only used the law of attraction - but obsessively.
Which patterns have you noticed in manifesting longterm love? Have you noticed that it has become harder to manifest dream partners? They either become stalkers, want to put you down or are not reliable. I have experienced some serious character switches where I did not regonize the person I knew anymore. I believe today, to keep a man faithful, you need to use Magick almost every week and do regular Binding. People have such a short attention span. Everyone seems to struggle. Kind people who believe in romantic love get seriously traumatised.
One of the best tricks to keep a man interested still is to feed him period blood. You can be creative with that and he will feed himself lol. I know it’s gross, but I have found it to be the most effective rite ever.
Sexual energy is the most powerful to create a bond if used correctly - eye contact as much as possible. Therefore, do always give a man what he wants (after marriage).
So what did you notice and I would be happy to hear if anyone has manifested a marriage with Magick and they are still together. I want to understand what I might do wrong or maybe for some people it’s just not meant to be (that would be over 50% of the population today).
Do you have specific tricks using Magick to keep your relationship safe from outside influences and other women/men?
Did you make a pact with a specific entity that changed your life?