Yeah you might want to check that attitide at the door, the problem with telling a new person who has just signed up to expect rudeness is that it’s against the rules, sure people may challenge someone who is being exceptionally needy, asking for help and not doing even the smallest bit of research, for reasons I just now described here, but these are our forum’s rules:
So this forum is NOT a flamewar friendly community where you have to go in with your defences up before even daring to post.