I hope it went well for you. Honestly my understanding of my practice is what I house. When you write to Lilith, she already knows your heart, soul and what you are ready for at that moment in time.
That being said, if you don’t have candles it quite fine I personally think.
When I did this I did it closer to 3 am. As long as your essence is at the right vibration (cleanliness hygiene, bedroom, energies surrounding you and said areas) just lay there nekkid as a j bird in the dark and close your eyes. You don’t need to see within the physical realm. You need to open yourself up and feel within the physical realm and astral plane.
I felt like little tails of flutterbies were dancing across my skin, my muscles began to micro twitch… Shivers, pulsating and ebbing throughout your body…
Even if it is something small… Keep trying nightly.
Repetition and trial and error is key.
If it doesn’t work one way … Try a different way.
Journal it down so you know where to tweak it.
However, what I do sometimes, is in my little cast iron pot I use regular salt, cover ¼ of the bottom, draw in the sigil, use 99% rubbing alcohol pour a little bit in and use a match. Pooof
When the alcohol dissipates from being burnt it will automatically go out.
Please just make sure that you have something heat resistant like cork potholders underneath your cast iron pot.
The night i did the the letter of intent i didn’t notice anything IRL but when i fell asleep i had a few hoodies on the bed beside my pillow i felt like sleep paralysis was coming but it didn’t instead in dream i had partial paralysis the hoodies started moving like something was under them i looked at them and a hand appeared inside 1 of the sleeves so i grabbed the hoodie and lifted it up i saw a demonic female face with sharp fangs then she started rising up she was dressed in a black tattered dress that had slits up the thighs normally i would react in fear but i was aware of the fact that i called her she reached her hand out to me but i was partially unable to move but i tried to reach out and take her hand but i fell off the bed then i woke up
After that i went back to sleep was having a normal dream about school and after school i went home i was in my kitchen when i saw a glimpse of a figure go past the doorway to my bedroom when that happened i instantly became aware i was dreaming/ normally i wake up if i realize i’m dreaming but i didn’t. I went into the bedroom there was a woman on my bed she was shy and didn’t look at me directly i asked if i could sit she didn’t answer suddenly another woman appeared with my 12 year old nephew she looked at me and said, So why did you do it? I said don’t worry he is not really here. She said the ritual why did you do it i didn’t want to say trueth in front of the shy woman that i was lonely and wanted a companion so i said i just wanted to see what it was all about i suddenly awoke it was dark i got out of bed and walked into the living room and and i saw her on my couch and realized i was still in a dream i went to her and asked her name she didn’t answer instead she kissed me then i woke up for real and i regret not saying what was true
I have a weird question I am trans as in male to female, and I don’t mind any gender.
do succubi/incubi care about gender or do they see the human soul as a pure thing?
Do they care about the fact that I want to be female?
and if I do a letter of intent would Lilith or any of the others care about my desire to be a woman.
and do incubi/succubi have a hermaphrodite counterpart?
Not sure what you’re asking here, but yes, as they interact with you on the spiritual level, that’s where their perspective will really lie.
If you call for one that will be partnered with you, I wouldn’t think so.
Otherwise, I do t think one can really generalize such a thing any more than you could with flesh and blood people.
No. Shouldn’t be an issue, I would think.
If nothing else, Lilith is the Mother of demons/incubi/Succubi, and recently I saw a passing comment on one of the journals I think where someone mentioned her “whipping them up on the spot” or something to that effect.
Lilith can literally birth the succubus/incubus you’re looking for, if need be.
They’re incorporeal, and able to shift their forms.
There’s various stories of them shifting or manifesting different sexual traits.
That’s why we have our own term around here: “Ubis”
As a gender neutral form of address.
This comes to mind especially (an amusing thread too)
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Ubis don’t care about gender, and indeed they have a very pure vision of the human soul. They are light years ahead in evolution.
That’s no problem if you are a trans woman, of course. The work with demonic queens (Lilith, Naamah, etc) can help you a lot to know yourself better and love yourself. Also evolving spiritually. Contrary to what many people believe, ubis do not have only superficial and frivolous relationships, but can be very deep and enriching.
About hermafrodites: There are ubis of all body types, genders. And yes, I have seen hermaphrodite succubi, they are relatively common.
And don’t forget to introduce yourself on the forum so we can get to know you better!
I have a question. I wonder if in order to do this ritual I need to have some kind of knowledge to be able to feel the succubus. Or can I be a person without knowledge and feel it the same way?
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