Our love spells compilation thread has a few options.
List of gods that do romance:
List of what the Goetic entities do in this area:
Also I’ve been enjoying the “Filthy Grimoire” by Tempest. Don’t judge the book by it’s title, there’s a lot of life path development stuff in here that’s useful, from emotional healing to romance.
Depends what you mean by “exploited” - “exploitation” is a form of usury - you want to use someone with only your benefit in mind - and this has nothing to do with romance or love.
So you might need different spells for that, probably more baneful ones.