Years ago I worked with someone’s higher self to implore them to make their “everyday” self love me… they granted permission and it was all going great - until I fell for someone else. I had to end the whole thing, but the point is, their HS was in agreement once I made my case to them.
Because of that, I believe that there’s always room for negotiation with someone’s HS and I’ve heard plenty of cases of someone basically straight falling for one special person of the same sex, and I think if you, Marie Leveau, are female (which sounds silly, but I don’t want to jump to conclusions based on your log-in name & avatar) and you’re trying to get another woman to fall in love with you, we have less of a stigma about it than a straight man would about the whole thing. At least that’s true where I live, in England.
So, I think contacting their HS might be the first place to go?