I’ve seen how people give their sexual energy by just jacking off to a sigil fantasizing to something. I tried that method but it leaves a lot of friction and takes a long time to do so.
What are your thoughts on this?
Is it disrespectful to the demon if I fantasized having sex with them to give them my sexual energy?
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Sounds like it’s not your bag, so don’t bother. I’ve never made offerings of this nature, it’s completely unnecessary. Burn incense as an offering if you like, or give simply your gratitude for a job well done.
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Alright, thank you.
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Sexual fluids create a more emotional (physical) connection with the spirit. Spirits can appear seductively if they welcome that kind of offering. Some are more inherently male or female, while others are more androgynous, and others are neither and more like a creature.
But if you want to gain a stronger psychic connection to a specific spirit, sexual fluids will very heighten it. Displaying sexual behavior around them can hint at your desire to do so, and they can repsond by accepting or ignoring it. But actually doing so upon their sigil is very much a consent thing. Some may be okay with it either way, while others may get mad.
Pay attention to how they act when you display sexual behavior, or think about them like such.
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Id imagine that any spirit would be more enlightened than us humans and not get so offended by stuff. So, no.
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Showing respect to a spirit, especially the ones we’d classify as demons or infernals. Is about recognizing and honoring their power, knowledge, wisdom and influence, maybe even acknowledging the slight sense of danger their presence gives you.
Morals have no value or even place in working with them. Just make sure you don’t get into too much legal or even social trouble, but that is for yourself. What especially has no place in working with chthonic/ infernal spirits is bringing in and/ or projecting the things we have (unresolved) issues with ourselves like the age-old shame and sex combo. That’s our own issue and an underlying blockage that is a result of at least a 1000 to 2000 years or more of shame and repression. It’s those underlying issues and (trauma) responses that we take with us in our practice and in a lot of cases that is what those spirits react negatively to. And other times it might just not be the right energy for union with those spirits. It all comes to intuition, whether sensing it is not the right energy for a spirit or if it is something we’d have to deal with and work on before bringing it to our practice.
apart from that, sexual energy has been a very powerful way particularly to commune with deities/ spirits for thousands of years. It has less to do with the actual fluids and more with the energy and how you direct it. It has even less to do with wanting to “bone a spirit”. It’s core is the balance and union of two energies and entities. What we see as sexual energy, you can also view as the universal energy needed as well as released in (intense) union between two entities.
That being said, I agree. If raising sex energy and using libations/ fluids to connect yourself to the work is something that is mainly physically uncomfortable, but even if there’s some emotional baggage around it. In my experience there’s a myriad of alternatives that give the same (if not better) results. Especially if it’s not about (comm)union with a spirit (as in: intense invocation up to a point of possession).
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Whether or not offense might be taken depends on the spirit.
Really, its more about the effect of orgasm than anything.
When you have that great release and experience bliss and tranquility after.
Depending on the goal, the level of fantasy and then the final climax can really send that energy out there.
Naturally, the quality of the orgasm comes into play as well. (Don’t overthink it though).
Lube is your friend. 
I fully recommend using toys for sexual offerings.
Especially if you can incorporate the spirits sigil or paraphernalia somehow.
For instance, wrapping a consecrated necklace around the toy while you use it, if female setting your toy above the spirits sigil and doing your thing.
Depending on the level of rapport with the spirit you can draw or paint up the sigil or whatever and sit in the universal circle or something similar while you use said toy(s) and get really wrapped up in it.
Also depending on the spirit in question, and the nature of the exchange, the more you can get into a fantasy of the spirit and having a good time with it the better the offering will be.
This is another way, invoking the spirit intensely and pleasuring yourself so the spirit can experience it through you. You may find the spirit hits a button or something and you have a more intense orgasm.
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I would rather say that it is a lack of respect for oneself. I will not talk about some beings of a really high level here. What I will say are beings known as succubi.
Do you really want to have sex with something so low?
So everyone tries to pull the rope to their side. We want to use demons and they want to use us.
Demons, especially sexual ones, have a wild and cunning almost psychopathic nature.
If it was supposed to work like this: first you have sex with spirits and then you open up to people, I would not say anything.
In reality, no one cares whether you are lonely or not. Even if these female demonic spirits seem to love you, let’s be honest, you will recognize them by their fruits. So it does not lead to anything good.
I once asked Rafael to perform a certain simulation for me.
So when these spirits think that you are really with them forever, they show their true face.
You open the door for them and they are happy to take advantage of it. That’s their job.
It’s like getting something valuable for free.
The worst thing that can happen is to be possessed by such a spirit and create imaginary perverse desires that can even lead to problems with the law.
It will not happen immediately.
Most do not have such strong tools to get rid of this problem, so they can disappear like a stone in water.
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I would say if it doesn’t feel good to do it then don’t. There are so many other offerings you can given them!
In my practice, I sometimes give sex offerings (by staring into their sigil or interacting with them on the astral plane) to demons that accept them because I enjoy giving them that offering and I get good results from doing so. It also helps me connect with and understand their energy on a deeper level.
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The very fact that having any sense of attraction towards someone, or any sexual desire at all, is somehow seen as disrespectful really says that we’ve grown week as a species.
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I agree that if it isn’t working for you, then don’t do it. Also, you could just ask the demon.
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Thanks! Your comments have been very insightful. I guess I won’t be doing any sexual offerings anytime soon since I still have a baggage and weight attached to it. Blood will do just fine right now.
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