Yep. And the constant promises of awakening my senses so I could actually have a relationship should have been the deal breaker
Yeah it was a very not good relationship for me
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“Awakening your senses” it also sounds strange and suspicious. It can take months for an incubus to be able to do magic with you satisfactorily, after reading a lot and practicing more. Anything that sounds like an easy shortcut is clearly bragging.
Don’t worry, what happened to you is normal in the magical path, especially those of us who get involved with lilitu. If ever that entity appears again, kindly invite him to tell you the truth. If it does not want to, opt for banishment.
Do you currently have a good relationship with a lilitu? I hope so 
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Well the one who appeared a few nights ago is here now. So hopefully I will. Lol.
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Theoretically, they do not have a mother, they do not have a baby cycle, they are made, when a succubus is made, it appears at the age of 17 and is very delicate, but at the moment of birth it has all the complexities of an ordinary girl without the neonatal stage. Has passed. I think the difference between a demon or jin and a succubus or Incubus is that they go through a baby cycle, what do you know about that?
Hello, Vulgo!
In my case I did not perform any ritual, it was a spontaneous incubus. Sometimes it can happen. However, if you are looking for a ritualized process, you have this very useful link in this post:
Incubi and succubi have been relatively common throughout history for centuries. There are many documented cases: some are invoked through a ritual, others are spontaneously attracted to you.
Don’t worry about the PMs, when you have interacted more in the forum and have introduced yourself, you will be able to send them 
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When I say “demonic mother” I mean what is the energy source they come from. According to the written tradition, the lilitu are ruled by different demonic queens, but I consider that this works more from a symbolic point of view than a literal one. Magic is eminently symbolic.
As far as I know, incubi and succubi do not have a baby phase, as you say. At least I have never seen any baby lilitu but I can’t be 100% sure, maybe someone with experience in this particular field can give us another opinion. They are supposed to be sexually very active, that means they already present themselves as developed, grown up creatures. Adults, or young adults. It depends on what you have requested, or what you have attracted.
Some people believe that lilitu are demonic beings hundreds of years old, but many are very young souls. Not only because of their appearance - appearance can be illusory - but because of their learning process. Lilitu are mimetic and absorb a great deal of information from their environment, making deep connections to what they perceive.When they are fascinated by a human, they learn everything that human likes in order to reproduce it, especially in the sexual field. But it applies to all areas.
On the other hand, I don´t believe that a lilitu is “created” by a magician. I consider it to be a pre-esxistent energy that we help to be in the world, and we shape it. And at the same time they actively shape it synergistically. It’s almost like a conversation. But remember: “Energy isn’t neither created nor destroyed, only is transformed”. My theory is that the lilitu start from a very complex pre-existence of which we still know very little, some kind of soul. I find this field particularly interesting, I am still studying it in depth.
However, as magicians we have the ability to mold this energy to our liking, but as each lilitu has a personality of its own, and it is always surprising. We are not the only ones who shape them, they also shape themselves to grow, and they shape us with their company and interactions.
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Exactly, in fact my very first experience was so loving, I couldn’t believe it. I woke up in the middle of the night with what I thought was sleep paralysis, yet I could still move, but what I felt was something embracing me from behind. It was like a really strong hug, extremely warm and after about 30 seconds of fear, it turned into a sense of calm. I became relaxed and the connection slowly developed. It was amazing and I remember thinking to myself, this is not what I expected. I was raised by very devote, christian parents and any spiritual contact was supposed to be evil according to them. Attacks, possession, yet it was not like that at all. From then on she made contact multiple times and we developed a very strong relationship that still continues to this day.
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It´s interesting that you mention this, because many people relate sleep paralysis with lillitu attacks, but in a bad way. You know, the classic story of “I felt that I was paralyzed and an incubus/succubus ravished me”. You see, on the contrary, she saved you from a blockage that could be dangerous, it was very nice of her.
It´s true that some lilitu are so passionate that they can be violent -many times the magician requests this almost involuntarily, or sometimes it is a parasite and not a lilitu-, but generally they are charming and sweet creatures.
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Very much what I’m experiencing now. Although this is also teaching my the value of taking care of my brain. Not having good sleep and a few other issues in my personal life are contributing to my current situation with this lilitu of not Being able to consistently use my most powerful astro sense which is mental communication. She has also been supremely respectful of every boundary that I’ve set and even actively enforces them Whenever I begin to slip. I haven’t seen I haven’t seen any red flags even though I haven’t now I haven’t known her for too long but so far I am immensely impressed!
On the subject of sleep paralysis and Lillitu attacks, having a relationship with Lillitu can give you a few allies in such scenarios as well.
Another method of defense is calling upon the queen’s such as Lilith, Naamah, or their sisters. But don’t expect a free service, that can be considered VERY disrespectful.
Add: Im curious to hear any experiences involving sleep paralysis though, hard to find people to sympathize with when they’re far and few between
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yes,
I saw a three thousand year old succubi queen, they are very attractive in terms of personality, The bigger they get, the more attractive they become, but there are bitter things about it
thank you 
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Hello @Velvetvillain
Nice to see you here to discuss most popular topic
I m trying to know why incubi/succubi hate their own childs, why they behave like enemies of their own creation.
they are most selfish kind demons btw
They live for sex only…
The lilitu hate their own children? Where did you read it? Generally succubus queens care a los about their children. Or do you mean the supposed “astral” children that are said to be created between lilitu and humans?
On the other hand, my experience with these entities has been very positive, it has not been just sex and I have not perceived them as selfish. Have you had a bad experience? Maybe you can tell us about it.
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yes my experience is not good, story is very long…
I may write some day.
check my other post in this forum to better understand what i was trying to express…
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They are as varied as humans and humans are decent to murderous lol can’t really label all Lillitu as bad
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I empathize with what you’re feeling friend. Pain and trauma are rough and completely destroy your life so I’m incredibly sorry to hear what you went through. I have been emotionally abused before myself, it’s incredibly debilitating but one of the things that helped me to get over it was to realize that I am incredibly valuable and worth more than gold so anyone who doesn’t see that or who tries to hurt me is not worth my time. Another thing that helped me was realizing that the individuals that hurt me do not represent every individual out there and so that has helped me to form new connections without the fear of being hurt again.
I’m truly sorry for what happened to you, as someone who has lived through trauma on this physical plane I think that it can be helpful I think to look at it from that perspective. I want to reiterate that I am incredibly saddened to hear what you went through and to let you know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel even if it may not seem like it right now.
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I’m interested in why you’re equating succubi and lilitu? (Ignoring incubi, the later, male version for convencience for now)
The first was a term first invented in the sixteenth century, evolving from the concepts of hag attacks and nightmares. They were a thing to be feared and banished. Modern approaches have made them sexy…
The second is a concept from JCI religion. An evil spirit that attacks children.
There is the idea that Lilith created lilitu, and that she is the overlighting entity for succubae, but why do you see them as the same thing?
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Their own children? They don’t, according to the reports on this form. Why do you think they do?
Interesting 
… there have been numerous reports of extremely positive succubi, maybe its a case of misidentification? Like looking at a cool rock on the ground that’s shiny and saying “look a diamond” but it’s actually another gem/ maybe even a sparkly rock?
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