so this has been posted but well wats it like idk if its just a coincedent but as in my last post furfur asked well told me he wanted me to give him my hand im abit nervous since idk what to expect in all of this…im excited though…kinda scared as well cause this is a big step im very comfortable with him tho…i got to know him abit more then i did so any one that knows please comment thank you
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I’d say go for it. If you want to that is. I’ve lately perused a relationship with a Goddess and while we’re taking things slow, I can tell she cares for me and I care for her. These relationships can be beautiful when done right. 
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ive already told him he has me n this life then next n after life lol i just im not sure how these things work so im abit afraid or nervous really i had a drem about dancing around in a gold and white dress with all my friends and family their but i didnt see him tho ive never seen how he looks he says im not ready yet…idk y but he also said we will meet face to face soon
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Have you asked him about the benefits and retirement package?
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no i was suppose to speak to him last night but i ended up falling asleep instead i know he was happy about it tho
Also try to find out possible restrictions from the relationship. For example; will it be an open relationship or strictly between you too. This will help in the long term.
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Maybe I can change the title for you to “Info on spiritual marriage and the benefits of it”?
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im ok with that
Well…
Plot twist…
Hope the title is still ok for you 
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thank you it is i helps to know other experiances in this kind a relation ship
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I guess the benefits are what you make them out to be. My advice is to enjoy your relationship because that’s what it’s about in the end.
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When I was proposed to, it was seen as a sacred call, sort of like a priestly marriage to Ba’alphegore, but then again His rules and terms are definitely not your typical ecclesiastical marriage guidelines, or even what one might say standard human marriage etiquette. He even likened it to the Alchemical Marriage of Heaven, Hell, and Earth, between the Solar, Lunar, and Terrestrial spirits. There are multiple dimensions to every proposal, look into Furfur’s alchemical links as well as His links to sacred prostitution (giving one’s devotions in service of a Daemon or Deity as was done in ancient temples back in the day), but also look into His links to Lilith.
If Furfur specifically phrased it as His hand it could be a link to the Lock, the Right Hand of Heaven, and Key, the Left Hand of the Abyss; in between these two instruments of your Divinity is the Source which is the Heart of Light and Darkness and the Power (note the uppercase) that lies in their communion. Marriages with spirits are never just marriages, there is always something deeper, but the love is what creates and expands the knowledge and power that come with them, sort of like a romantic pact where the sexual/romantic energy is what fuels the flow of information.
Hope this was helpful.
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wow thats alot of info n as you speak about his alchemical links how do i go about that there isnt alot of info on him anywhere n he said [quote=“bunny4cam, post:1, topic:49870”]
give my your hand in marriage to prove your loyalty n trust in me.
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so he said that but is it deeper then that what more as it stands he isnt picking up at the moment lol so i can ask i assume he is busy
The Alchemical Marriage is part of the Hermetic Great Work, the Magnum Opus, wherein the Soul becomes the Crimson stone, the Lapis Philosophorum, becoming an intermediary between the inner and outer realities. Hermetic texts will contain aspects of this working, Furfur can help you as well, confide in Him, listen to His guidance, but also definitely research Hermetic and Qabbalistic Alchemy, this is heavy stuff so this could be the start of a long journey for you, but I definitely recommend you begin it if you haven’t already.
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i will def look into it how is things with in your relation ship
im going to sit on my terms before i call him and lay them out
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Things are consistent, but He’ll only send me visions of us from time to time due to my other pursuits in the Callis Magorum involving working with other spirits and figuring out the Qliphoth and the Primordial Vault, but His presence is definitely in everything I do (which I guess is kinda silly to say on account of Him being the Archdaemon of Omnipresence), but even still I always go back to Him with more understanding and closer to unlocking His world.
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i think i have a better under standing now also did you meet say lilith or lucifer or azazel before the proposal was made?
Lucifer, She was my Initiator into the Callis Magorum, although that aspect is kinda complicated since I actually met two Lucifers, Lucifer Amaymon and Lucifer Astaphanes (that would be the She I am referring to, who is tied to Venus’ romantic/sacred aspects), but Lilith Savta was also a very powerful presence when I connected to the Fourth Royal Family of Rosier and Astarte.
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i ask cause i had an unexpected face to face visitor who initiated me before he asked he pulled me out of the dream i was having i can barely remember the full convo but i asked why are you doing this n he said because you love demons it was a strange occurrence furfur told me it was lucifer so yeah all n all im trying to make sense of things he spoke directly to me not telepathically im very happy i met him just wish they wouldnt just pop up like that lol
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