Please navigate to the link below and at least grab the criteria for a proper introduction, if you are going to bounce around threads chaotically, altering from advice to skeptic to best buddy, so that we can understand perhaps what is causing this behavior and how to respond to you.
There are plenty of topics on this subject, many are guides and tutorials and are designed for idiots and new comers alike to help them get started.
There are as many ways to work with entities as their are members on this forum and none is necessarily more valid than the next.