It sounds like you may have been cursed or have other bad energy placed on you because of what happened.
You family knows the reason or they would not side with your attacker. Why do your own family hate you? . What do they think happened, even if it’s not true?
It sounds like this isn’t the right approach. What rituals did you try so far?
I think the first thing I would do, if remove myself from the whole situation and it’s energy. Stop interacting with the family and people against you, get a job further away where you are supported and liked. This is the most important thing for our mental health and will help your magick work.
Like getting to solid ground in a lifeboat, you have to get yourself out of the sea and safe before you try to change people’s opinion or get revenge.
Magickally this means you cleanse the energy or break the curse, go no contact with those that are giving you bad energy, and get yourself healthy and financially secure.
When you have got yourself out of the bad energy and are rebuilding your life, then you can think about fixing things with your family.
And then last of all expose your attacker for what he did.
Personally I like Corwin Hargrove’s Goetia Pathworking book for this type of multi-layered working.
(I don’t have any books by Winterfield so I can’t speak to that, but maybe if you look throughit there are similar ideas.)
- Hex break and cleanse - this is the most important step. Forget the enemies for now, put up protections.
A) MURMUS Remove unwanted energy. Use this power to clear any space, whether a home, garden, or somewhere you work, of energies that don’t feel right. You might perceive this as a haunting or poltergeist activity, or something more directed like a curse. Whatever you sense, this power can cleanse and clear the location.
B) Get the Psychic protection handbook and work through it cleansing your energy and learning how to read your energy and keep it clear of influence. Link here: Unofficial Tutorials: Spiritual Hygiene & Defense Collection
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Attract opportunity.
Attract work with attraction spells. A good book for this is here: Magick and finding work - #16 by CyberLord -
After you are safe and well, then come back and try Andromalius
ANDROMALIUS Make a disloyal person reveal the truth. You can use this at home or work, and direct it at a person that you suspect of disloyalty. If nothing is revealed within two or three weeks, by accident, discovery, or confession, you can trust that there is loyalty.
- When all this is clear and out in the open, the revenge will have taken care of itself and your family should apologise, if you were truly the one wronged.