You have to influence the guy, change his mind towards you, make him develop feelings of lust towards you, desire you sexually, make him seek you out, reach out to you, etc etc etc…
You have to come up with a step by step plan, it’s you’re work…you have to do the research and put some effort into it. It seems like a lot of work, but if you’re hellbent on making this guy come crawling to you and you in turn, reject him, then have at it, do what you need to do.