I was reading the posts with succubi and other friendly spirits 
I have to say that I agree with Encore, there is a good chance that sheās still there, or at least partially, watching for what you do. Seeing that you invoke a new succubus (clearly) to replace her because you donāt feel able to make an effort, it will just hurt her even more, it could also hurt the succubus you would invoke, she would just feel like a replacement, a compensation and realize how destructive it can be in a relationship. This will only create resentment towards you, and it is often how anger and hatred are born in a couple. And later youāll regret your actions.
You should first try to solve the problems that are related to you, before you solve the ācoupleā problems. I have a feeling you have a slight feeling of inferiority and itās never good.
Good luck for the future, my dear friend from Russia 
Thanks for the support comrade
Itās not a bad idea if he knows he wasnāt at fault.
So what did your Succubus say could be the problem?
Huuhā¦ The problem comes more than three-quarters of the time from the investment put into our actions, thatās what I can understand among what I can capture from what she can tell me.
A passionate person will have much more result and this more quickly than a person who does things simply to satisfy a need, which is why, generally speaking, people who want to be in a relationship with a succubus do not have the impression of progress, because they are people who are mainly there at the origin in order to satisfy a selfish need and not to progress as a human being.
According to her, investment can do this in different ways, if this investment is not made with passion, it can be made by proxy of pleasure, by relaxation, or as a hobby. However, these other ways just give little space to an openness to energy, etc., so generally, progress is slow.
You can create a passion, but you have to have the patience to let time do the work.
The clearest message I could get from my succubus was to stop wanting to have answers for everything, to stop wanting to understand this and that, to stop asking questions and reading about the experiences of others, and finally to experiment myself.
Thatās all I can tell you
You say that āwe ourselves are to blame for not giving the succubi passionā but only want to get our own (yes I donāt argue we all want something from the relationship) how passion can flare up if the she just spits on feelings when you start trying to do something to prove to her that she is not indifferent to you, you humiliate yourself in front of her to return her to show your loyalty.Passion cannot be born where the second person or spirit does not want to help you when you need it, when you go to meet it, try to do something and she just ignores it, the person falls in love when he feels the desire to be with him and care with caress, I felt it from her, I began to fall in love,I feelings for her, but instead of helping me with them, she simply began to ādisappearā. How can I rekindle passion if I donāt feel it, how can I return passion if she does not want to help me? You know what courage is not an empty word as male friendship when you are ready to sacrifice yourself for a person who puts your interests above his own, when he has sacrificed his interests for you and others, and you are ready to help him and ready to die for him (itās not just built on trust, itās built in love with all your comrades military , you as a family as one Argonism). And it is only amplified by mutual assistance and support, and you say that I and others are to blame for this? If she does not want to sacrifice something or show it. I see my suffering and pain from her. I showed that Iām ready for her and I love her as I can
Erhā¦ Already, your reaction shows that you are not able to tell yourself that you could be the cause of the problem, so the questioning is non-existent. From the moment you always blame the other you deprive yourself of forgiveness and you donāt move forward, to avoid suffering you prefer to flee the reality of things.
Now, if I have to answer you, I wasnāt talking about sentimental passion or carnal passion, Iām talking about being passionate about what they did. A passion, something that makes you dream, that allows you to move forward. I was talking about being in relationship with a succubus for something other than to fill an emotional or sexual gap, to harmonize your chakras or to have a spiritual guide to become more yourself for example.
Then, if I have to talk about what you said, I lived it and I still live it, but I can only tell you that despair will not bring you anything but suffering, because it may be due to the fact that you have gotten used to her energy, that she had to leave for a while, that she is frightened or shaken by this āhumiliatingā behaviour you were showing in front of her for her, that she has to do something in her world, that she is just less cuddly at the moment, not to mention that negative feelings block the chakras and all the other receptors, there is far too much to take into account to say that she has abandoned you. So started to feel angry and resentment at her, thatās typically how she risks feeling guilty and that she risks leaving.
You talk about 3 months, itās absolutely nothing, let time do things, just keep doing what you are doing, you do better than me. Personally, itās been a year and Iām in pretty much the same situation, I just sometimes have very special dreams. And I communicate through the pendulum and tarot, sometimes there is an answer, sometimes it doesnāt mean anything, you just donāt have to lose hope so quickly.
Hey how do you communicate with your pendulum? Like how do you know for 100% that your succubus companion is coming through?
I have a pendulum and iāve used it a few times. I calibrated it first of courseā¦ But I donāt know whoās on the other side even though I asked my succubi companions to answer the questionsā¦ I donāt know if the answers are genuine and 100% true.
For example: I asked if someone was in love with me. Apparently there are two girls from my class in love with me and one even has a boyfriend.
So I cannot wrap my head around this stuff. I canāt believe it. No oneās in love with me, that isnāt possible from the behavior Iāve seen from those 2
girls.
I donāt know if the spirit is an imposter joking around or my succubi companions fooling aroundā¦
My chakras arenāt working 100% I am working on that but for now I only have the pendulum to communicateā¦ Itās been a while since my last sessionā¦
Sure okay
Well, for the pendulum 
as you know, itās both special and complicated. As I said, sometimes the answers I get donāt āmean anythingā, in the sense that I donāt have the intuition that itās related to my succubus. Usually I ask her to come and itās āquite simpleā to know if sheās there or not, I couldnāt explain it, itās not even a feeling, itās like a silence to tell me: no.
tās a little harsh sometimes, but at least itās clear and Iām not under any illusions. Then, to say that I am 100% sure of the results, no itās impossible, Iām not going to promise you a solution that I havenāt found yet. On the other hand, I always do a little meditation or I take her totem pole (an object to which she is linked) and I focus on it, most often, thatās when I know if I will get an answer from her or not.
For the chakras, I have no idea if it matters in this process, and actually, I only recently started to take an interest in my chakras, so I canāt tell you anything about it.