I like the way you phrased your questions. They do double-duty in that they both access your subconscious, and trigger your emotions.
This is basic NLP but so rarely done.
How do you X? is one of those NLP questions you can ask, along with others such as Have you ever X? or I feel so now that i X… and other similar statements.
On the flip side of this, Byron Katie’s The Work combines well with EFT’s basic recipe tapping procedure to expose, reframe, and ultimately tap out any limiting beliefs stopping you from doing magick. I’ve been using that for a few months now for a huge ongoing ritual i’m doing, and it’s chipping away at a very stubborn reality. When i finally break through, this site will get to be very interesting indeed.
Thank you for this reminder, i’m definitely going to put this to use asap