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I need advice on an urgent and long-standing matter. I’ll try to keep the story as short as possible. In 2021 I conjured up my boyfriend and current fiancé into my life with a very simple candle spell. After careful consideration, I put together a list of characteristics and the intention was that the universe would send me the man who was right for me. Three days later I met him on a dating app. Except for a few small differences, it had the qualities that were on my list. He was an elite soldier and was essentially “idle” in my city. He was ordered back to Afghanistan for duty after just a few days. He had already asked me if I could imagine a life with him or if we would try it if he quit his job. I agreed. After about six weeks and completing a mission, he returned to Europe and stayed. He had simply deserted and paid off the court. We were very happy, but then the problems started. We wanted to get married but the registry office in my town was absolutely against it. We tried repeatedly for three quarters of a year to submit his papers with apostilles, translations, etc., but these were not recognized here. We’re not the only ones this happens to. My lawyer told me that going to court could be very lengthy, i.e. take years. We were already exhausted because of this Registry office history and I also became ill with the thyroid. I was depressed and it affected our relationship. We had a really bad year in 2022. Above all, it was extremely difficult to have a regular income as an illegal citizen without papers. He had to keep chasing the money and the orders dried up. The working conditions were more than bad. A parallel society of undeclared work opened up before me, which I would never have thought possible until then… I don’t know how these people can survive for so many years… But he always remained hard-working and optimistic. The optimism had already left me and I now felt like I was being pursued by bad luck. Even before the time, I had been living with him since 2019 with recurring blockages in my planning, finances and authorities, etc. Unforeseen things kept happening. My business as a card reader had almost come to a complete standstill, while other colleagues were doing much better. However, it has to be said that the entire industry has been in decline for a few years… I had the feeling that this streak of bad luck had already rubbed off on him. On top of that, ever since he moved in with me in the summer of '21, we’ve had haunted phenomena here and I’ve had very annoying nightmares. At some point I had to get someone to remove these energies from here, but that’s another story. We always barely survived and then in the summer of '23 he moved out. At first I thought it was due to our relationship problems and yes, at times I really thought about breaking up. The hunt for money and jobs had driven us apart. He was always on the go, working or getting ready for the next job, because everything always went through contacts and relationships and unforeseen things always happened or bills came up. I had also heard him speaking to someone on the phone in English on two occasions. He then confessed to me that he didn’t move out because of us but to protect me. An American intelligence organization desperately wants him to return to duty. However, my fiancé refuses. His team members don’t want to go back either. They also have families etc. He’s been hiding since then last summer. We are together and in contact every day. In between there are personal conversations and threats from the opposing side, but my fiancé remains “hidden” like a ghost, thanks to the daily and, above all, technical, digital support from his men. I can see in the cards that the other side is now at a loss, but they aren’t giving up either. A person was assigned to persuade him to come back and he is the real adversary. When I walk into this man’s energy it is very similar to my partner’s. In general, the mindset of these people from the secret service or elite soldiers is completely different, in my opinion. These people have incredible strength of character, nerves of steel and endless endurance. So I tried to magically attack this one person using rituals from Magickal Attack or Angels of Wrath etc. I also tried to banish him. I tried to magically protect my friend. At times I had the feeling that it was working. It’s quiet for weeks, but at some point the other side shows up again and wants an interview with his superior, who is on my fiancé’s side, etc. The tactic is probably to stay here until my fiancé gives up. I only have the name and energy of this adversary. Maybe I went about this whole thing wrong? Is it even possible to work magic in such a case? The adversary is so ambitious and unbending in his energy. My fiancé has now burned out and even he has lost his unshakable optimism. How do I proceed in such a case? Should I continue to banish, curse? I’m at a loss. What do you all mean? Please understand that I cannot go into further detail publicly here and yes, it actually reads like something from a bad movie, but it is true. I thank you in advance for your answers.