Hi there,
I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, but it seems that my spells against my enemy are not working whatsoever.
I’m trying to separate her from her boyfriend as she’s my partner’s ex and has caused many fights between us. I’m also trying to drive a wedge between my partner and this woman.
I tried a vinegar jar with all sorts of not nice things in it against her and her boyfriend in April, but they seem to go strong. I also tried a vinegar jar for her and my partner. I was shaking both jars with anger for several days, threw them in running water but they are still sweet with each other.
2 weeks ago, I did a ritual from Angels of Wrath to cause hatred between her and her boyfriend.
2 days ago, I did the petition to Raum to cause arguments at home.
Just yesterday, I fried name papers with her picture and the picture of her boyfriend with chili, which is a trick I learnt to make people fight, but an hour later, she and her boyfriend came to my house looking all happy with a gift for my partner for father’s day!
My partner enjoys her attention and said that whether I like it or not, she’ll be his “friend” and no magick will ever work against that.
I have a lot of anger and would really appreciate advice on how else I could channel it to work against her.
Do your targets know that you are using magick against them?
If no, why did your partner say so?
If they know that they are objects of magickal attacks and specifically, magick for break up, they will fight against it, for sure.
No, they didn’t know and I live in a country where people don’t believe in magick. At least, I never heard of it before and I’m good surfing the internet.
My partner knows that I discovered magic and I’m reading books. The comment was said during an argument, but if he really thought that I’m trying to hurt their relationships, he wouldn’t have been nice to me.
The problem is that I’m not sure how to do it concretely.
I was imagining them fighting when I was shaking those jars and when I did the other rituals. So I’m thinking that maybe I’m not channeling it correctly?
I think you did the break up jars right. They work slow, in general. A break up bottle or a jar must be hidden or buried somewhere near where they live for best results.
As for Angels of Wrath, try the ritual Remove protection first, then apply curses or break up spells.
You can ask Gaap to cause hatred between individuals.
Hit the targets where is their weakest place.
They may have arguments and hate each other, and still be together because of finances, or something else.
Destroy every aspect of their relationship, and they are gone.
Layer your spells and trust them.
I’d take a closer look at this statement. If they are energetically connected, or connected in some way thst you can not comprehend, due to shared experiences or circumstances, you’d be better off to attack what links them and makes this so. If it’s simply a statement on his part, there may be nothing to it, but it seems he handed you a key- and you need to unlock the door.
Hi @Cruella , I do think that you could change course with this spell. Ultimately you want the strong emotional connection between this woman and your man to be severed. However, to both want that and the destruction of her relationship with her current bf to my mind are counter-productive. Who knows, if her current relationship crashes she may want your man back more than ever. I think that you should work on strengthening her relationship with her current man in an effort to weaken her interest for want of a better word with your bf.
Therefore, fry up papers with her and your bf. Also like other posters it is not helpful at all that your bf knows that you may be working on destroying their relationship. He may have also let that slip to her, remember with a simple google search anyone can enter the occult.
It may be better to also attack other areas in her life so she is busy having to deal with those than even really remember about your bf. Or who knows do something so she gets pregnant by her current man so she can forge a new connection with another child’s father. Just brainstorming here or better yet work on strengthening your relationship with your man to the point where your bf does not care about her as much because clearly he does.
Why did you fry in chili as far as I know chilli actually creates MORE passion in a relationship
So if I am understanding correctly they share a child? Does that child live with her or you guys?
The problem is that this link seems to be due to the child they share. How does she really attack that? I have the same line of thought though interested in seeing her answer as if they do share a child and if so, who the child lives with to come up with another idea.
Just another reminder why I do not date men with kids…sighs
Yes, they share a teenage child and I am all for civil relationships, but she goes out of her way to be extra sweet with him which then allows her to complain about me and he always takes her side. The teenage child lives with her, but has means to communicate with my partner, so no reason for her to always be in contact.
She has an young adult son who’s not my partner’s, but she has made efforts to link my partner to her son too, so my partner still feels financially responsible for him (!). So the links are at least her children (19 and 13), I don’t know what else could it be. I think my partner is just flattered by her attention and no matter who great things could be between us, this doesn’t change.
Today for father’s day, she made him his favorite dessert and wanted to give it to him in person WITH her boyfriend…She’s one of those very sneaky, arse-kissing types that I just can not stand.
Her relationship with the boyfriend seems really good, he has a picture of them together on facebook for a while. She can not have children anymore due to an operation and age. I was thinking that because she directly or indirectly caused many fights between me and my partner and my children suffered from that as well, the fair punishment would be to cause fights between her and her boyfriend (they don’t live together, but visit on weekends at the minimum), because clearly she feels powerful having both men on her side.
yes I don’t like types like her either but then again I feel your bf should not be entertaining her. Put it this way if he were giving her a cold shoulder she would not be emboldened to behave this way.
I think another sour jar is needed but this time one for ONLY her a jar designed to completely remove happiness from her life.
I am thinking the goetic demons Gusoin and Dantaylion would be perfect to remove this enemy from your life. You can read up on them and decide if that is a route you would want to take. There are other low magick steps to take too candle spells aimed at removing her from your life and to cause mishaps in her life.
I really do think you must do some love spells to strengthen your relationship as well.
Use the mantras and see how black serpents come out from portals" Aperiatur terra et germinet serpentes " and " ascendat serpentes "
these serpents bite your target and envenom her or him with illness and death. In goetia are also powerful spirits who can extra help with poisonous serpents like Valac
The bond with a child is different than many others. I have no advice as I’m not privy to the full situation, however knowing this should lead you to more appropriate avenues of attack. The issue you may find, is that if it isn’t in the best interest of the child, it can be difficult to manipulate the situation. I’d look for things that would benefit the child if they changed, teenager or not, and manipulate those things- being good for the kid doesn’t make it good for both parents.
What do you mean by that Keteriya? You mean that the magic would be affected?
Whatever I do against this woman, if she breaks up with the boyfriend or loses her job, wouldn’t be good for the child, but it won’t be the end of the world either. The older the child gets, the less parents need to communicate.
On the other hand, I don’t think that the child benefits from her parents exchanging sweet messages, she’s not aware of them. Whether they are just polite or wheather they are sweet, it doesn’t make a difference for the child. Many times she writes to him for things that the child tells him herself.
This woman is also friends with his first ex (he has two of them) and his older sons. And the older sons are friends with her son. My partner, while paying for her son, uses him to lower his income. So there are a lot of links.
I feel like I have to attack all these and of course, it’s not what anyone other than me would want…
The thing is that I don’t want to cause death, I want something proportional to what she has done to me. Her death would mean that her child would come live with me and it’s not necessarily what’s best. And if she’s ill, my partner might care about her…
Is there a way for her to become nasty or cold with him instead?
Yes. Whatever you do towards the parents, can be prevented by protection surrounding the child and their best chance at life. I don’t mean do bad things towards her like causing her to loose her job. I mean taking a moment to look closer at the child’s situation, what is wrong with it, and what you can do to make the situation better for the child. Making the child’s life reach full fruition of their needs and desires will most likely have a negative affect on one or both of the parents, otherwise there would not be needs and things you could make better.
I am saying look at this in reverse instead of the way you are. When your approach isn’t working there is usually a reason. Determine what the reason is and take action from there. Have you ever heard the phrase “Loving them into the kingdom.”
I don’t mean throw blessings their way, but when everything or most everything has failed, it is time to think outside of the box, take in more details about the situation or in this case what is bonding the individuals and attack where it actually hurts, instead of where it is not affective.
Thinking you have only two targets is, in my mindset your biggest flaw approach. While many demons don’t give a rats ass about collateral damage- I’ve found that children complicate things and often are the exception to what we otherwise consider the norm.
Now I see more clearly the situation and would say two things:
Remove her from your partner’s life
Enhance the bond between you and your partner.
Her bf has nothing to do with this, she just needs to be out of your partner’s circle.
He can see his child and take care of them, without interfering with her.
Of course, you know best but that’s my opinion.
She has no place in your partner’s new family.
Bonus: if you want some kind of revenge for her, you still can do it.
There are demons for all that, I suggest you Demons of magick and Angels of wrath, you can work with both.
Hello @Cruella,
first of all I’d suggest to stop informing your partner about the magic that you’re doing. Obviously you’re hurt by jealously and the anger is its expression. Obviously he enjoys making you jealous. And that’s not good. Goddess Naamah is taking amazing care of mistreated women be it emotionally, physically or just being disrespected. She could make you feel and look great and will take care of your enemies as well.
yes I don’t like types like her either but then again I feel your bf should not be entertaining her. Put it this way if he were giving her a cold shoulder she would not be emboldened to behave this way.
Valac 
