Hello everyone, I’m an absolute newbie to magick, and there’s this girl whom I had unfortunately fallen in love with. She left me back in late January and had been on and off with me, attempting to break contact and then deleting her own account. However, though I love her, I never asked her what her full name was (since we met online) so I’m not sure of that. But, she was like SUPER religious too, before she broke up with me she told me that she believed I was going to hex her or hurt her with witchcraft (that was even before, I got into magick lol) she left me, and left me totally heartbroken because I really DID love her, and it also seemed like she loved me too. I miss her so much (I’ve previously used subliminals to try and stitch her soul to mine, and also make her break no contact ( the no contact subliminals only worked temporarily) But I’m ready to perform an actual ritual now. Can I do this as a complete newbie? Please help!
You don’t need the full name of the target, unless you know multiple people who have the same name.
As a matter of fact, I know no one else with that name.
The spirits will know who you are referring to as long as you are clear on who you mean.
So you want to hex someone who told you she believed that you would hex her? Talk about playing to expectations lol
As an aside, you can also use the name she goes by online as a link.
lol, I guess she wouldn’t be too thrilled to know that I did that on her, but she’ll just never know.
Oh, but she will. All humans come equipped with the ability to sense subtle energetic shifts. She may not know exactly what you did, but she will definitely pick up on the fact that you did something to her, especially since she already knows you to be the kind of person who would resort to a hex to get your way. Bindings breed resentment and when she discovers that she can’t ever get rid of you, she will begin to despise you for it. It’s coercive, manipulative and an abusive act of control. You’re a beginner in magick and you shouldn’t ever delude yourself into thinking that you’re acting out of love because you are not. When you truly love someone, you want them to be happy above all else, even if that happiness isn’t with you. What you are doing, in essence, is cursing the target, exactly like she said you would.
Note, you said she is religious and she is apparently spiritually aware enough to correctly guess that you were going to curse her so watch out for potential blowback from her guardians.
You dont even need the first name if you guys met in person, the spirits know what your desire is and who you mean
You are right. I really do love her, and seeing her truly happy is what makes me happy. I can’t do something like that, especially now. I don’t know if I’ll be able to do it right now, as a newbie. I can’t force it on her, but I still want her back to me (for good). I will be heartbroken for the rest of my life without her. I can’t be coerce her to love me, I can’t manipulate her and witness her downfall. I cannot do any of these things to her.
I never met her in person 
Tbh, I think you cant do much about it then. Forgive and forget, I guess…the spiritual link between you two cant be that strong to hex her if you didnt meet in person (my opinion)
okay 
but regardless, the bond we had together was beyond any bond i ever had.
Its a shitty feeling but once it fades away you ll be happy you didnt curse her. Cursing exes in your state of being tends to backfire
Nothing ever fades away for me. It stays, it STAYS
You could try a spell to rekindle the relationship. If she has any lingering feelings for you, the spell will work to magnify them. It’s important to understand, however, that even if there are still feelings in the target, she may not want to be in a relationship with you. Loving someone does not automatically equal being together with them, especially if you know they are not good for you.
I think this might be your best option, if you don’t want to dominate her and forcibly bring her back to you. Dantalion of the Goetia can do this.
Also, you might want to direct some magick at the issue that ended the relationship to begin with. If the reason why she broke up with you is resolved, then she will be more likely to act on any feligns of love she has.
I’m certain that she still loves me, several times in the past couple of months she has been either leaving threatening anonymous messages or just directly messaging me about how much she apparently misses me. Then, she just deactivates her account again and reappears again very randomly. Yes, she loves me. It probably was not her who wanted to break up with me, perhaps it was peer pressure from those around her who somehow got to know. I do not want to dominate her or force her back to me, I just want to rekindle our love, for I do think it was true. She spoke so coldly, I half believed that it was not her typing those very words.
In my opinion, it’s up to you to decide if the person is worth it ?
Honestly, since you haven’t really met, and she already knows that you are into witchcraft, and also knows that you plan to cast a spell on her, and she is also religious, I don’t see much chance
I don’t want to be mean, but since you have zero experience with casting spells, at least not yet, and the person already knows that you want to cast a spell on her, you won’t be able to do it very well…
- You don’t have any experience with casting spells yet
- The person in question, since they already know that you want to cast a spell on them, may already feel resistance towards you and block your spells
- Even though it’s called a love spell, in reality it only creates the person to be possessed by you, and you only force the person’s free will to be with you, also these spells don’t last long which means that in order to keep the person you have to cast a spell on them all the time, this will exhaust you, ask yourself are you willing to waste your energy and time on this person?
- maybe you see it all, and you will always use those spells to keep this person manipulated, what if later you meet another person who you will have a real interest in and they in you? and this person starts to bore you, do you think she will leave you alone? since you created him to be possessed by you? no she will not and also you will spoil your further relationship with your new person…
- Really no spirit or demon can awaken true love in a person, they only make the person be possessed by you, and it also does not last long, which means that you have to constantly repeat it
I suggest moving on and ignoring this person, if you really were meant to be together and it was meant to be in fates, the person in question wouldn’t be playing games with you.
Well, you are right. After all, I am almost completely inexperienced. But, she is in love with me (I’m certain of that, it was so true)
At this point, I am beyond hopeless with everything in my life. I think I have to do some soul-searching to see and understand if she’s really worth it, because even without all of that self-discovery, I do think she is. I don’t know, maybe I’m just really naive and gullible. I’m gonna have to think twice.
I don’t know if you have any experience with divination, but you can use tarot cards, for example, to shed light on how the person in question feels about you, and what their true intentions are with you etc..
Nope, not that either. I have practically ZERO beforehand experience of magick. That’s part of the reason why I’m so clueless, and also because I’m completely heartbroken and blinded by her! 
If you want to learn something about witchcraft, how to cast spells, etc. I know a YouTube channel where the lady in question teaches how to cast spells, she also talks in those videos about how to properly focus and concentrate when casting the spells in question
she also gives and shows various books there, for example about various spells
For example, I recently got a new book from that channel where there are curses and hexes, etc. that I didn’t even know existed