How can i create a link?
Your ritual is the link in this context. Actually, the instant you have a desire every moment from then on is a link unless you hold a conviction that emotionally contradicts it somehow.
Are you sure that āevery momentā is a link from the time you have a desire? I donāt know much about consciousness shifting but I thought that the desire is the link and the ritual is the means to an end.
Yes. The feeling of desire is just the relativity between your attachment to the perception of what you call ācurrentā reality and another reality. Every moment from the impulse that makes of you aware of another state of reality is a path to it, i.e. reality is transforming into it. The ritual just helps you feel more connected to it by providing this feeling of relief or fulfillment, i.e. eases the attachment to the current state vs the desired state. Itās not very easy to describe in words to be honest.
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Loved your response. I need your suggestion! Me and fiancĆ© just broke up soon we moved to our new house. It has been month. We both were very heart broken, sad, angry, depressed and confused over the situation. I start working on my flaws, recognize what I did wrong, diagnosis the issues caused breakup and all. I tried to work on myself, but you know when you pull one brick of the wall the wall start falling apart slowly or fast. So I tried to talk but I messed up more by rushing her, pushing her and being desperate (situation was odd too, after broke up with her I moved bank to my apartment and she was alone in the big house, and my apartment lease was going to over in a month and Iād no place to go.). But canāt blame the situation .
Anyway I have been manifesting, visualization, did some spells (new to it). Improving myself, fixing the flaws I had, working on the fears, anxiety triggered my emotions and caused the breakup, and working on all other issues (first I broke up and then she broke up, and refused to get back together soon she realized game is in her control).
We love each other, trust each other, cared about each other and build house together. But now she raise her ego high, and her mind is full of negative things about us, and she donāt want to hear from me. Because I left her.
I value our relationship, I love her, i wants to be the man again who she wanted to marry and have kids with. And fulfill her needs, wishes, desires. But with my own stupidity I pushed her away.
What do you think and suggest me? Any Magick? Etc
Thank you
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You should start on the base. Working in your flaws, as your ego. In fact, this is where everyone should start if someone is trying to do something by itself. It will affect directly your magick by improving the way that people see you, but the best part of it is that your magick becomes more likely to bring results since you become less desperate about the outcome.
After that, at least while you do that, you should start working on your friendship with the girl. When weāre talking about long-term relationships, the friendliness between the couples is one of the āgluesā that holds things together. You can flirt, kiss or have sex with anyone that wants two, but thereās no lasting relationships if there isnāt a really good friendship between the couples.
After that, work on bringing nostalgic memories from your past together as you work on reaproximation itself.
Then, work on bringing regrowing love, and let it happen, little by little, as the contact flows naturaly, donāt force anything. Then, when you both are already close, work on the lust, the sexual attraction.
In the end, after it all, work on evolving the relationship. Not on biding, development.
This approach works pretty better than obsession itself. Obsession normally ruins relationships instead of making them lasting. But in your case thereās love. Thereās only a month after the breaking, and love is a feeling that is pretty difficult the get rid of.
So you should seek this plan strictly. And the most valuable tip here: be patient and know that your outcome is inevitable.
Pm me if you have any doubt. Good luck.
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Thank you for the reply. Situation is complicated. I wish things were easy as I mentioned. I donāt have any ego, she does. I forgive everyone very quickly, she donāt. She no longer talk to me, she never blocked me but she do not reply any calls/text/eamils, and she donāt even talk much with her own family anymore. I canāt PM you yet because I am new here.
Who did you use?
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