Do you normally feel presences? If not, then you don’t know if he didn’t come, or if he came and you couldn’t sense him.
To sense entities and learn to talk telepathically to them, you have to develop your communication with your subconscious, also called astral senses. Maybe try something from this list and it will help. Unofficial Tutorials: Developing Astral / Psychic Senses Collection
How long has it been? Often magick takes time as what you have done is change the probabilities, and you have to let the universe rearrange to find a path to manifestation. Assuming there is one.